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The other issue you have to deal with is whether to call her while she is away. If she’s going to be gone for around a week, calling at least once is a good idea. If you call once and she calls you back right away and seems interested in talking, you can even think about calling her again in a couple days. But if she takes her time returning your call and is somewhat distant on the phone, then one call is enough. Also pay attention to what she says when you wish her well on your trip. If she says something like, "I’ll have my phone with me," then that means she wants you to call her. Set another date soon after she comes back to keep the momentum going. Remember: out of sight, out of mind.

Paying on dates is a form of putting in effort, but this is something that poor girls will never be able to do. Even when she is not completely broke, if I’m making money and she’s a lowly student who is working a second job to pay tuition, I am hesitant to let her pay. If you will always be paying for her, go for cheap dates. You want to put in the minimum amount of financial effort because there is no way for her to reciprocate. Stick to cafés, walks, or cooking at home. Until you get sex, you don’t want her to interpret your spending as too much interest. And you definitely don’t want to treat her out to nice places so she does everything she can to continue the free ride of meals and drinks. Don’t create an expectation that you will spend money on her for nothing in return. If she doesn’t get the hint that you aren’t Mr. Moneybags, let her know that you are on a budget and saving for your next exciting vacation, and would prefer fun and creative dates that are inexpensive.

Buy a couple boxes of condoms and start placing them in all your jacket pockets, your backpack or laptop bag, your car glove compartment, and your best friends’ car glove compartments. Have one condom that stays next to your cologne that you put in your pocket when you go out to talk to girls. You want to maximize the chance that there will be a condom nearby when sex is about to occur. While you may not get a one night stand for some time, if it happens you want to be prepared. Your worst nightmare is not having a condom when you are on top of a naked girl who is begging you to bang her. Don’t put yourself in the situation where you will take a risk: if alcohol is involved and you are horny, chances are you will bang her raw and then regret it the next day. Getting laid is challenging enough―don’t make it harder by not being prepared.

This is a dangerous situation for you to be in. You always want the girl to like you more than you like her so she flakes less and puts in more effort. This in turn leads to a higher chance of sex occurring. All this if reversed if you like her more, and it just gets worse as the difference between how much she likes you and how much you like her increases out of your favor. While you can’t change your gut feelings for a girl, you can fight it with some reprogramming by pretending that you don’t like her. Stop describing her as hot in your head. Think of her as cute instead. Stop fantasizing about her before you go to bed. Jerk off to porn stars that looks nothing like her instead. Stop thinking how great she is. Focus on her negative qualities instead. You want to shrink the attraction discrepancy as much as possible so bad, needy game doesn’t leak out. The leaking is inevitable if you convince yourself this girl is a possible girlfriend. Not until she reciprocates and makes it clear she likes you can you increase your feelings for her. Getting with your crush works well for guys in the movies, but not in real life.

Don’t change anything if she doesn’t drink, but expect more resistance and an increase in the amount of time it takes to have sex with her. Give a sober girl five dates as the deadline for sex, two extra than normal.

I have no problem admitting that alcohol helps my game immensely. The more a girl drinks, the more she removes mental blocks to having sex with me. It’s a magic drug that is not only legal but something girls like to self-administer. If she is a drinker, simply allow her to drink. Keep in mind that unless you are talking about one night stands, alcohol doesn’t create notches that weren’t going to happen already―it only shortens the time it takes for it to happen. I’ll do a non-alcoholic first date in some cases, but by date two she’s drinking because five dates is too long for me to find out how she is in bed.

Every man should experience the awkwardness of banging a virgin. This is where you go very slow, watch her grimace in pain, and get told several times to be gentle because it hurts. Hot, right? But after a couple times of this you can start to mold her into the slut you’ve always wanted. You are her teacher and she will listen to you because you’re an alpha male who exposed her to the sexual world. Most guys move slowly with getting virgins in bed, but you are going to be persistent like with non-virgins. If a girl tells you she is a virgin, reply with, "Oh, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you." Her virginity is a disease and you are the cure. You will be aggressive with escalation moves because you are not going to change your game just because she has this problem of sexual inexperience. Break her down by constantly pushing until she relents. You are not a guy who is going to be patient like all the other nice guys in her life; her virginity is a testament to the failure of that strategy. You have strong sexual needs she needs to fulfill within a reasonable amount of time, or else you need to move on.

If you don’t pay attention to whether the condom is still on or not, you may turn a minor issue into an accidental pregnancy. If you are banging her with a condom and then it suddenly starts feeling really good, it’s because the condom broke. You now just have a ring of latex around the base of your cock. Pull out, say, "I have to get another condom," put on another one, and then resume banging her. No big deal. With experience you should not go more than a couple strokes knowing that you are raw. You want to minimize your exposure to the naked vagina because the dose is the poison―the longer you’re in there, the more likely something bad could happen. Don’t count on girls to tell you the condom broke because it’s very difficult for them to notice.

Problems with sexual performance may be due to her lack of movement, vocalization, or mouth usage. Before the next time you have sex, say, "I want to try a couple things that I think will make it better for us both." Then tell her exactly what you want her to do. It will take persistent work on your behalf to change sexual habits she has been doing for a long time, so unless you consider the girl longterm material, it’s probably not worth the energy.

So you tried everything, went on multiple dates, performed every trick in the book, and you can’t even get off her jeans. Most guys will wait her out until she is ready to have sex, but I don’t advise this because you would be entering a relationship where she has complete control. The energy you put into her could be better spent getting sex from other girls. No girl should have unlimited time with you to do something that you consider critical to the continuation of a healthy relationship. Don’t play by her rules: chalk her up as a learning experience and move on. Tell her that the lack of intimacy is a problem for you and it’s best if you two become friends. If she gets upset and makes it seem like she really does like you, you may want to give her just one more date to put out, but not more than that. Not every girl you date is going to put out, and there is no point wasting your time when there are so many who will.