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Feminists are a delight because they don’t have hang-ups about sex. While their demeanor suggests they are tough and prudish, they actually are very easy once inside the bedroom. Feminists will call you out on your belief system more than a non-feminist, but as long as you stay firm and explain why you believe what you believe, she will respect that and bang you anyway. When guys meet feminists, they become more beta in fear that they will offend her, but do the opposite and let her tone down her crazy beliefs instead. She will be surprised that you have these opinions and become more attracted to you. Feminists are amusing because they say they want the opposite of alpha males but alphas have no problems hooking up with them.

Because your game depends on constant feedback and openness, a shy girl is trouble. You will have a hard time knowing if she is interested because she won’t ask questions or respond like most other girls. Shy girls are not just shy with speaking but how they approach life as well, so they are the least likely to put in effort and make your sex goals easy to accomplish. It’s for these reasons I pass over shy girls and give them to guys who like making big projects out of girls. Once you get into the game and meet a large quantity of girls, I’m confident you will pass over them as well. Other than mysterious silence, they just don’t have much to offer.

Take her to loud places where conversation is not necessary. Or take her to artsy performance events. You want to be more focused and deliberate with your touching since that is what you will use to amplify the attraction, which in this case is probably built on your look and confidence instead of your wit and humor. Get comfortable with silences. This girl is different from the shy girl because she is able to put in effort and work for you.

This is most common if you are approaching a pair of girls. You only want one but it ends up going well with both and they are giving you equal amounts of attention. What I commonly see is guys don’t pick one and end up getting both of their numbers using a "I think we should all hang out again" close. This doesn’t work. What you want to do is for the first minute give more attention to the one you don’t like and then move on to the one you do. Make it clear with who you prefer so the uglier girl is encouraged to take a lap. Don’t exclude the ugly friend and do keep her in the conversation, but don’t worry too much if her feelings are hurt or if she is going to cockblock you. Either you get some type of close that has a good chance of going somewhere or you get cockblocked, two outcomes which are much better than getting useless numbers.

I guess a true alpha wouldn’t care about asking a girl’s name again if he forgets it, but sometimes not knowing her name can be very awkward if you’ve already hooked up. If you forget her name, just ask her how to spell her first name. If her name is common like M-A-R-Y then say, "Oh I thought you had a creative spelling." I think the Seinfeld solution is to dig through her purse while she is in the bathroom, but that seems risky.

It is rare you will come across a girl who has bad breath. Girls are so self conscious about personal hygiene that they will double and triple check themselves before going out. If a girl has bad breath, ask her if she had onions today. Or offer her one of your mints or gum. She will get the hint.

Trying to bang girls who are already taken is one of the most fun aspects of the game. Once you reach a proficient level of success, you may find it a little boring to chase after girls who are single. The next logical step is to go after girls who are not single. I’m not going to make a moral justification for going after taken girls. I look at it this way: if the boyfriend kept his game tight and his girl happy, she wouldn’t even look at me after my opener. The fact that she is still here, giving me attention, and considering having sex with me is because that guy is not hitting her buttons like I am. Why should I say no to a girl I want to have sex with just because she made a commitment to someone she probably shouldn’t have in the first place? Just do what you do want and ignore those people who get all high and mighty on you. Don’t listen to anyone else who tries to tell you who you should or should not bang. The reason a girl with a boyfriend is looking your way is because she is bored or unsatisfied. She sees you as the potential answer to her boredom. Focus on exciting stories or travel adventures that make life with the boyfriend seem so lame and dull. Avoid discussion about how life is depressing and sad. Girls in relationships will flirt with other guys, but they only cheat with guys who are able to provide the best logistics. It will be with the guy who makes it discreet and easy for her. For this to happen you need to remove her from places that have people who know about her relationship. Once you get her alone, away from prying eyes, it becomes like any other pick-up. The only delay is that is takes a little more time to get the kiss out of the way (for taken girls, kissing another man is a big deal). If she objects in the bedroom with "But I have a boyfriend," simply agree with her: "You are right, maybe we shouldn’t do this." Disengage her logical brain so she loses herself in the moment.

The key to good logistics is having repeated access to her. If you meet a taken girl at a club and she is with five of her best friends, you will get nowhere. Even if she likes you, she won’t give you her number while her friends are around. But if you meet her alone at your favorite coffee shop and you see her every other day, or she is in the same class as you, your chances are much higher. Get her alone where you can game her without interruption, where she doesn’t worry about who is watching or judging her. With taken girls you have to be more indirect than normal with your words and not let her think you like her. Do this so that she can rationalize that you are a "friend" and continue seeing you. But here’s the key: keep your physical game exactly the same. She will be very confused that you are touching her and walking arm-in-arm and placing your hand on her waist while your words are just normal teasing, stories, and jokes. Since your game is mostly indirect anyway, this will not be a significant departure from what you normally do.

You want things to get to the point where she lies to her significant other about hanging out with you. She’s going out with her "friends," not you. And you can even help her rehearse the lines she will tell him, putting you two on the same team against him, the enemy. This commits her to you even more. If you get into a regular fuck-buddy relationship, you will be tempted to steal her and make her your girlfriend. But be careful: the reason the relationship is so fun and exciting is because she has a boyfriend. I let these girls know that while I love hanging out with them, our relationship is partially defined by having this third man in the picture. If she wants to leave him then it should be because it’s not working out with him, not because she thinks I will get into a relationship with her. Of course, saying this makes her want me even more because I’m pushing her away, and her instinct is to come closer. Sex with taken girls is fun because they have so much bottled up sexual energy from being unhappy that the passion is explosive.

Do you really want your friend’s sloppy seconds? I know, she is hot or she is really cool, but there are no other girls you can go for?