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The more time into the interaction you are, the less critical it will be to have something interesting to say. You simply cannot sustain a relationship built on always-interesting conversation. If you’ve adopted The Vibe and ran a couple of your best routines, you will already have blown out 80% of all other guys she has met in her life based on the first thirty minutes alone. Your focus at this point will be maintenance because failure will come either from saying stupid things, getting needy, or getting cockblocked. As long as you stay relaxed and keep doing what you are doing, your odds of success will be quite good. Retain the mindset that it is her that should be proving herself instead of the other way around. She’s the one who is on display and being judged, not you. Besides getting the number, your other two options are continuing the interaction where you are at or moving it to another location. Most of the time you will be staying in the same venue, so let’s talk about that first. Since your value has already been displayed and she is interested in you, your goal will be to relax, get to know her, not say anything stupid, and most importantly, escalate. Retain the thread strategy to keep the conversation flowing while you find commonalities and ramp up touching. You want to reach a level of rapport where it feels like she’s known you for longer than she has. Your hands will be the main escalation tools. We last left one of your hands resting on the side of her hip and it should now be encroaching on the top of her ass. Don’t be scared to do this. Touching is extremely important in shortening the time it takes to get her in bed so it is something you should always be focused on. Even if all you can manage is subtle footsy games underneath a coffee table, it’s better than nothing. Touch and touch often. Another important touching move is hand holding. If you are leading her to another spot in the venue, stick your hand out right next to hers. Now gauge her return grab. If it is a weak grip where the hold would be broken if you loosen pressure, that means she does not want to currently hold your hand. Let her hand go and try again later. Once she is comfortable with your touching and starts to reciprocate with some touching of her own, she is ready for the next step: the kiss. All the ways in which humans express physical affection can be fit on a line. On one end is the hug and on the other end is penetrative sex. You’ve hugged many people in your life, probably some that you don’t like, but as you move down the line you are less likely to perform intimate acts with people you dislike. Kissing on the mouth is somewhere in the middle, an act you only do to people you have an interest in but something not serious enough to warrant a lot of thinking or analysis. It’s only one step above breathing in someone’s ear or rubbing noses. But the faster you can kiss her, the better, and it’s for one simple reason: to save time. If you don’t kiss her when you meet her, you are going to have to do it on the first date. Since on this date you won’t be able to kiss her until the end, after you rebuild the magic from the night you met, you can save yourself at least one whole date ― and the money that date costs ― if you kiss her when you first meet. This is because she will be more open to moving it much farther on the first date if you already kissed beforehand. In other words, a man who didn’t kiss his girl at the bar will have a second date two that looks like the first date of a man who did. You may be thinking that you are moving too fast if you try to kiss her when you first meet her, but in fact you are probably moving too slow. In some foreign countries, especially ones in South America, it is very strange if the guy doesn’t make a move within an hour or so. In Venezuela I made out with a Brazilian girl after a thirty second introduction (granted, she was a prostitute, but I didn’t know that at the time). Even in the States, many American girls will not hesitate to make out with a guy that they feel attraction for (thirty seconds is my record here as well). Think of kissing as a prerequisite you need for sex to occur. You can kiss girls and not have sex but not the other way around, unless you are paying for it. Since kissing is a physical act, our kiss escalation strategy will be composed of physical moves. A girl may get aroused if you tell her a story about how you climbed a mountain to kill a bear with your bare hands, but storytelling is not as efficient and universal as touching. Girls will kiss almost anything as long as they are interested and physically comfortable with what they are about to kiss. No emotional connection is required. There are four key moves to the kiss, two of which you can use when you meet her and two additional ones that come into play on the first date. They ease into the kiss so you don’t surprise her in a way that may lead to an awkward moment. By using physical moves that ramp up towards the kiss, she will have the opportunity to let you know if she doesn’t want to kiss you well before you close the gap to her mouth. The first move is the staring contest. Silent eye contact is an intimate gesture usually reserved for close lovers. You introduce the staring contest in a playful way by randomly saying, "I bet you I could kill you in a staring contest." Some girls may whine that they are not very good at staring contests, but press on and tell them that you are not that good at it either. Fifteen seconds into the staring contest, take advantage of the opportunity to be playful by either falsely accusing her of blinking or complaining that your contacts or dry eye condition give her a totally unfair advantage. If you lose the first round, suggest a best out of three. The staring contest makes her feel more comfortable with you.

After the staring contest, your touching game should be wellestablished. If you are in a bar or club, your hand is frequently attached to her hip. If you are at a coffee shop, your feet may be touching under the table and your arms or elbows may come in frequent contact. The distance between you two should be closing. Now we’re going to introduce the holy grail touch move: the hair stroke. Perform this move when she has responded positively to most of what you’ve done so far and you feel like she is giving out mostly green lights (a couple yellow lights are normal). First, maintain constant eye contact while she is talking and then interrupt her by saying,

"Wait." Then very slowly and gently, brush your fingers across her temple going behind her ear to fix her hair, even if there is nothing to fix. Then say, "I fixed your hair." While seemingly innocent, this is a very intimate move that again is reserved for lovers. After you perform the stroke, gauge her reaction. Did she make a weird face or seem like she was creeped out? If so, then she is not ready to be kissed until your next meeting, where you will run the two additional moves. Unfortunately, a small minority of girls have rules or major objections to kissing guys on the same day they meet them. If she gave you a neutral or deep look and continued the conversation, or simply maintained eye contact without questioning what you did, she is ready to be kissed. Knowing a girl is ready to be kissed is like knowing what poker hand your opponent is playing. You play the hand in a way that maximizes the amount of money you get. With a girl you want to use this knowledge to amplify the sexual tension so that the kiss has more impact, which she attributes to you instead of your moves. First, during conversation or dancing, lock eye contact and move to within about six inches of her face. If she is ready to be kissed, she will not move back. Continue with physical touching for the next couple of minutes by moving away and then back to this invisible six inch wall. Then move to within four inches and break eye contact at least once to glance at her lips. She knows what this means. This is fun because you will feel the tension that you are creating and probably get aroused. She may even close her eyes to get ready for you to kiss her. At that point you know you can do it right then, but instead you will pull back and continue the conversation like nothing happen. How long you want to postpone the kiss depends on the stability of your environment. If you are at a place with lots of distractions and there is a real chance you will get cockblocked, your next pass will be when you kiss. But if you are at a quiet party or lounge, you can play the dance a little bit longer for a stronger effect. Make at least one more pass where you simply repeat coming in close, building the tension, and then bottling it up by pulling back. On the final pass, get in close to where your noses are about to rub, hold it for two seconds, wet your lips if you need to, and then make that final leap of faith onto her mouth. Rejection should not be on your mind because if a girl lets you get within a couple inches of her face, she is accepting the kiss. If you are at a non-alcoholic venue, you will have the opportunity to perform at least one pass after the hug goodbye, where you loosen the hug but leave both of your hands resting on her hip so you remain close to her. While this technique gives you an assurance that she is ready, it is actually overkill because she probably will be ready well before you do even the staring contest. It mainly serves the added benefit of building tension. A rule of thumb when it comes to kissing a girl is to see if she remains still when you get close to her face. If you are a few inches away and she doesn’t move, she can be kissed right then and there. Experiment in a way that balances speed with sexual tension. If you are talking to a girl who you don’t want to ever see again, go for speed. But if you do want to take her out again, you want to build as much tension as you can to blow her away when you finally do kiss her