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Once she is showing interest, start with the main escalation technique: touching. While talking and showing your personality gets her interested, touching is what leads to intimacy. It also lets her know that you are a physical man who is experienced around women. How you start touching a girl depends on the venue you are at, but for now let’s assume you are a place that serves alcohol. If I am talking to a girl and she is interested (she is asking me questions), I introduce touching at around the 10 minute mark. The first touching move is where you touch right above her hip bone with one of your hands. Your first hip touch should only be for one or two seconds to probe her reaction. If she doesn’t recoil (odds are she won’t) or take great notice to your touch, wait a few minutes and then go back to the same spot for a longer, ten second touch. Then wait a few more minutes and return for a longer, half-minute touch. By the 45 minute mark, your hand should be resting comfortably on her hip. Most girls do not say anything, but every now and then you get a girl who asks, "What is your hand doing?" Your answer: "It’s on the side of your hip." Stand firm without moving your hand until she backs away or physically removes your hand from her body. It’s very rare that a girl will move your hand away unless you introduce it when she wasn’t interested in the first place. This move tests her for any major physical issues that would prevent you from moving forward. After you pass the one hour mark, begin to explore the space: move it to the small of her back and then eventually to the top of her ass.

An extension of the hip move is the double-hip move. When she says something shocking, insulting, or weird, use your hands to grab both sides of her hips and move her a little closer to you while you say something like "What?!" or "Are you serious?!" with a deep eye contact stare. Then after a couple seconds relax and let one hand go. Hip touches are difficult or impossible to pull off if you are both sitting down or in a coffee shop-type venue. In that case you can introduce touching by commenting on jewelry she has on her hands or wrist. Pretend that a piece of jewelry she has on suddenly caught your eye and touch it as you ask her what it means. Leave your hands touching her for an extra second or two longer than necessary. This move isn’t a panty-wetter on its own but will make it easy to touch her later in a more desirable environment. Touching will be very important later when we are about to go in for the kiss.

There are variables that make the simple act of talking to a new girl very difficult. The first is noise level. After you’ve been in a loud club for a couple hours, it becomes very hard to hear, and because constantly saying "What?" will stall out a conversation, sometimes it’s better to mimic her facial expression and nod after she says something you couldn’t quite make out. Be careful though: you will eventually nod to a question you shouldn’t. The best way to combat loud noise is to dance, where you talk to her for maybe 10-15 minutes, gently grab her hand, and say, "Let’s go dance." Never ask. The second variable is cockblocking. This is probably the most frustrating aspect of the game as you simply cannot control it. Unless the girl is very into you, she will allow herself to be extracted by her fat girlfriend. It’s a shame because with just a little more time you could have turned a girl’s lukewarm interest into something stronger. In other words, cockblocking will cost you notches and there’s little you can do about it. But there is one routine you can use in defense of the cockblock when you see it coming:

What you are doing is planting a seed in her mind that her friend is trying to rob her of a good experience. Guys will not cockblock you as much because many understand the rules of the game, but every now and then you will run into a guy who really does not like the fact that you are trying to get into a girl’s pants. Sometimes I think these guys are just looking for your respect or approval because talking to them for a couple minutes and asking them simple questions disarms them for more time. In general, it is best to be friendly to those who you think will cockblock you, but let them talk to you first because you don’t want to give them too much encouragement. On the other hand, when you see another player who is doing well, your instinct may be to doubt him and be jealous. This is natural because the competitive nature of the game makes things seem zero-sum, that if some other guy is getting laid it is at your expense, but this attitude will slow your growth more than anything. Instead of hating, learn from other guys by watching and asking questions. Every player out there has at least one golden line or move that is worth incorporating in your game. If a guy is persistent with moving in on a girl you like, ask him,

"Do you like her?" Your tone will be neutral, like you are just curious. If he says yes then you can put him in a weak position by saying, "Well you should buy her a drink then!" If he buys her a drink then he's just another beta in the bar and if he doesn't then it looks awkward because he just made a verbal declaration of his affection. If he says he doesn't like her or weasels out of answering, say, "Well there are a lot of girls here. I'm sure you will find someone who you like if you keep trying. Don't give up!" He's done. It's like you are giving him relationship advice. He is going to scramble and say something like, "Oh, um, I'm not here to pick up girls." Now he just put his dick in a box. Without even raising your voice or having to get tough, you can neutralize a male cockblocker and resume running game on your girl. The third variable is the interruption. You will be talking to a girl, things will be going fine, and all of a sudden a friend from nowhere recognizes her and they start a conversation. When this happens it is best to be proactive to prevent getting completely excluded. Since she just met you, she probably won’t introduce you to the friend, especially if she doesn’t even know your name yet. Therefore, ten seconds after their reunification, take the initiative by sticking out your hand and introducing yourself, whether her friend is a guy or girl. Often times their conversation will be inside in nature, giving you little opportunity to insert yourself into the dialogue. You must make a judgment call on how long the conversation will last because you don’t want to put yourself in the weak position of sitting there for a while, silently, waiting for them to finish. If it looks like you will not be included and their conversation will continue for more than a couple minutes, say with a smile, "I will let you two catch up." Do not tell her when or if you are coming back. After you walk away, you have to assume that the approach is done and you will not talk to her again, because odds are low that you will. Free your mind up to meet other girls that hopefully she sees you talking to. If you do see her again and she doesn’t avert eye contact with you, re-approach her. The best way to re-approach a girl is to casually notice her, smile, and say, "You’re still here?" You want to continue the conversation like you didn’t already talk to her, which means you need to hook her attention again and rebuild the energy that was lost with your time away. While re-approaching is worth your time, the reason it ended the first time will probably surface again. Ideally you want to push interactions without breaks so the re-approach is never needed. When a girl re-approaches you, it is a very strong indicator of her interest. A tough spot you are going to be placed in is when you are talking to a girl for a couple minutes and she asks you to hold her drink or coat. It seems like such a simple request but it has strong meaning in the interaction. Understand: you are not a drink holder or coat stand. There is no reason for you to hold anything she owns; if she can’t handle something with her own two hands then she shouldn’t have brought it out. When was the last time you were at a bar and asked a friend to hold your coat? That said, if you have been talking to her for less than ten minutes and she asks you for such a favor, nod your head sideways. She will look at you like you’re crazy. Then say, "But I hardly know you," with a slight smirk. She will still be shocked and you will be tempted to explain yourself, but don’t―simply stand there like a rock and continue the conversation as if she didn’t even ask. Before you think you "lost" her because you refused to be her drink holder, realize that you didn’t have her in the first place. This type of girl likes attention and wants to see how much she can get random guys to invest in her. A girl with a sincere interest in you will do the opposite: she will make it easy on you by withholding from asking favors for as long as possible. If she asks for a favor after fifteen minutes and the interaction is going very well, decide based on the circumstance. If she is making a strong effort for your attention and you’re in a good mood and want to hold her drink, then go for it, but make sure you raise a stink about it beforehand. Say, "I just met you and you’re already asking me for favors!" Whatever you do, do not hold something for her while she uses the bathroom―she’ll be gone for at least five minutes while you stand there like a chump holding a ladies jacket.