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288 “David Foster Wallace’s 1996 opus,” from Chad Harbach, “David Foster Wallace!” n+1 , Issue 1, July 2004.

289 “I’m in awe,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, November 18, 2005.

289 “I too have,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, January 3, 2006.

289 “DeLillo’s thing about,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, January 29, 2006.

289 “I go back and forth,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, June 6, 2007.

290 “It’s…part-Rottweiler,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, September 26, 2006.

291 “It’s absolutely wonderful,” from a letter by Christopher Hamacher, March 7, 2006.

291 “Is it OK,” from a letter to Christopher Hamacher, February 22, 2006

291 “You’re not going,” from a letter by Christopher Hamacher, July 8, 2006.

291 “I find that although,” from a letter by Stephen Lacy to Wallace, September 5, 2005.

292 “Tax law is,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, April 22, 2007.

293 “Work is like,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, December 1, 2006.

292 “My own terror,” from an email to Deborah Treisman, January 12, 2007.

294 “revelations revelationize,” from a letter to Gerry Howard, January 16, 1986.

295 “Digital=abstract=sterile,” from a postcard to Don DeLillo, dated July 21, 2000.

295 “The individual parts,” from an email to Bonnie Nadell, April 23, 2007.

295 “I am, at present,” from the Eggers interview.

296 “forgetting about writing,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, April 16, 2007.

296 “What are envied,” from an unpublished interview with Didier Jacob. Le Nouvel Observateur, August 2005 (unpublished).

296 “to put some kind,” from an email to Bonnie Nadell, April 20, 2007.

296 “I could take a couple of years,” from an email to Bonnie Nadell, April 20, 2007.

297 “Let me noodle hard,” from an email to Bonnie Nadell, April 23, 2007.

297 “I feel a bit ‘peculiar’,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, August 4, 2007.

297 “disabling nausea/fatigue,” from an email to Jonathan Franzen, September 20, 2007.

298 “Upside: I’ve lost,” from an email to Bonnie Nadell, December 4, 2007.

298 “I got really,” from a letter to Tom Bissell, February 16, 2008.

299 “We’ll have big fun” and “I am not all right,” quoted in David Lipsky, “The Lost Years and Last Days of David Foster Wallace,” Rolling Stone, October 30, 2008.

NOTES

312 “None of the men,” quoted in Lance Olsen, “Termite Art, or Wallace’s Wittgenstein,” Review of Contemporary Fiction, Summer 1993.

313 “passionately interested,” from a letter to Richard Elman, circa September 23, 1985.

313 “there is nothing outside the text,” from Jacques Derrida, Of Grammatology, trans. Gayatri Chakravorty Spivak (Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1997) at 163.

314 “only me and Mom,” from a letter to Corey Washington, January 14, 1986.

314 “…so that word,” from a letter to Bonnie Nadell, October 31, 1985.

314 “I’m sure I may,” from Leon Neyfakh, “Gerry Howard, on Discovering, Editing, and Hatching David Foster Wallace: ‘He Was the First Person Who Ever Called Me “Mister,”’” New York Observer , September 17, 2008.

314 “I’m an exhibitionist,” from an unedited transcript of the McCaffery interview.

314 “I’ll shine your shoes,” from a letter to Richard Elman, May 1, 1986.

315 “The best thing,” from a response to Marshall Boswell’s questionnaire, May 18, 2002.

315 “sort of an artistic,” from David Lipsky, Although of Course, at 61.

315 “sort of a joyless,” from Lipsky, Although of Course, at 142.

315 “A certain Uncle,” from a letter to Gerry Howard, January 1, 1987.

315 “turns the mouth,” from a letter to Jonathan Franzen, May 2, 1989.

315 “not working under,” from a letter to Jonathan Franzen, May 1, 1990.

315 “Title imposed by editor,” from a letter to Brad Morrow, March 18, 1988.

315 “a seventeen-page,” from Lipsky, Although of Course , at 34.

316 “a lot of hooha,” from a letter to Christopher Hager, October 28, 1995.

316 “going to get dwarfed,” from a letter to Brad Morrow, March 7, 1989.

316 “too Pynchonian,” from a letter to Steven Moore, March 7, 1988.

316 “My nose could use,” from a letter to Steven Moore, March 7, 1988.

316 “grows erect, and comes,” from Thomas Pynchon, Gravity’s Rainbow (New York: Penguin, 1995) at 20.

316 “some real personal,” from a letter to Jonathan Franzen, August 13/14, 1989.

317 “I mean, I got very assertive,” from Lipsky, Although of Course, at 138.

317 “The mere falling,” from Paul de Man, Blindness and Insight: Essays in the Rhetoric of Contemporary Criticism, 2d ed. (Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 1983) at 187.

317 “Seek out the artists,” from a letter to Jonathan Franzen, May 21, 1990.

317 “absence of emotion” and “lack of clarity,” from Mary Karr, “Against Decoration,” Parnassus, Spring 1991.

318 “It doesn’t work like that,” from a response to Marshall Boswell’s questionnaire, May 18, 2002.

318 “crazy and reject me,” from a letter to Deb Larson, December 6, 1993.

319 “think[ing] out loud,” from a letter to Sven Birkerts, November 14, 1993.

320 “The thing is,” from the Scocca interview.

320 “You didn’t get sober,” from a letter to Evan Wright, October 17, 1999.

320 “I think he will fulfill,” from an interoffice memorandum by Jay Jennings to Donna Doherty of Tennis magazine, June 20, 1995.

321 “preserve an oralish,” from a fax to Joel Lovell of Harper’s , circa 1998.

321 “by at least 25 %,” from a letter to Chris Hager, October 28, 1995.

321 “The resolution that reviewers,” courtesy of Chris Hager.

321 “there is an ending,” from an interview with WORD e-zine, May 17, 1996.

321 “a recovering smart aleck,” from the Miller interview.

321 “I don’t think he would have hated it,” from Lipsky, Although of Course , at 231.

321 “Using skills… only Elizabeth has,” from Lipsky, Although of Course , at 5.

322 “A grad student lent me some tapes,” from a letter to Michael Schur, circa 1998.

322 “May the peace and blessing,” from a letter to Don DeLillo, circa July 1999.

323 “We sort of ‘cuddled and talked’ instead,” from a letter to Evan Wright, April 28, 1999.

324 “Huh? I’ve never been ‘promiscuous,’” from a postcard to Nick Solomon, March 27, 2006.

324 “I know her, may have been,” from a letter to Marie Mundaca dated January 27, 1998.

324 “I never gave Kenyon a transcript of it,” from a letter to Christopher Hamacher, February 22, 2006.

325, 326 “What’s tricky is just what you’re asking” and “We all knew and know,” from a letter to Becky Bradway, February 2007.

Aaronson, Jaci, 65, 112, 113, 115, 116

Aberration of Starlight (Sorrentino), 56, 116

acne, 17, 20, 35–36

actors and actresses, 125, 224, 244, 245, 320 n

addiction, addicts, 94, 101, 106, 113, 127, 135, 150–51, 156, 169, 218, 257, 258, 317 n, 319 n

Infinite Jest and, 161–62, 171, 182, 183, 214

stories of, 140–41

Wallace’s sponsoring of, 179–80

see also alcohol abuse programs; drugs, recreational; substance abuse recovery

advertising, 91, 94, 120, 123, 148, 259, 318 n