Roosh h Valizadeh - Bang, or more lays in 60 days

Next up is pants. If you get her pants off, there is a 75% chance you will be having sex within mere moments. But before you try to remove them, unbuckle your belt first. This tells her where things are going and gives you an idea of how she is going to react. It’s a bad sign if she asks you why you are unbuckling your belt while it’s a good sign if she does nothing. Take off her pants in stages, with a one minute rest in between each stage. First unbuckle her belt, then undo her top button, then unzip her zipper, and then finally wiggle her pants down. If she doesn’t lift up her waist and the pants are difficult to remove from your wiggling, say, "Need a little bit of help." She may help you by lifting up her waist or even taking off her pants for you. If she resists say, "Just wanted to make things more comfortable," and then start all over again. Take off your pants soon after you take off hers, so that after this stage you have on underwear and she has on her bra and panties.

Once her pants are off, do a direct contact vagina rub. A lot of guys try to make girls climax with their hand before sex, but this is not necessary. You just want to penetrate her vagina with your finger for a short while to enjoy the wetness and get ready for the next stage. First, gently rub her vagina over her panties before you put your hand inside them. Gradually creep down with a finger or two and rub the area until you end up finger banging her at a slow to medium pace. If she stops you then you have to take this as resistance and start over. It’s a very positive sign if she grabs your hand to guide the vagina rubbing action. She may say some weird things as you progress towards the later stages. Most common are "I don’t usually do this" and "We’re moving too fast." To make sure we don’t trigger her logical brain, simply agree with whatever she says so she doesn’t have to think of a rebuttal. Suitable answers are "I don’t usually do this either" and "You’re right, we are moving too fast." But even after agreeing with her, continue doing what you were doing. If you are getting too much resistance, you feel like you are doing all the work, or she says something like, "We are not having sex tonight," then you can gradually ramp down the intimacy and make an excuse about how you have to get up early. The exception is if a sleepover is assumed, where in that case you can try again later that night or the next morning. When you eventually do make your exit, leave things on good terms by not showing annoyance or anger. You are a man who wants sex so you tried to get it, and she is a woman who resists sex. It’s no big deal. When you part ways, make sure you give her a nice goodbye. Tell her that you had a really good time if you want to see her again and that you will talk to her soon. If all systems are go, the next thing you want to take off is her bra. Taking off a bra will be very difficult unless you know how the strapping mechanism works. A bra usually has three hooks that wrap around three eyes. You unhook this contraption by actually tightening the bra a little so you can pull the hooks out. The easiest way to do this is when she is on top of you. Just like with buttons on a shirt, the hooks are always going to be on the same side (your left). If you are trying to remove a bra but can’t, simply say, "Need a little help." The girl will laugh at you but she will still take off her bra. It’s happened to me many times in my early days so it’s not a big deal, but it is in your best interests to be able to do it on your own. Unstrapping a bra with one hand at lightning speed is a move that girls appreciate. Once the straps come undone, let the bra just hang there for a minute until one of you ends up taking it off completely. After already taking off her pants, you will not get resistance at the bra unless she is insecure about her breasts. You can now introduce mouth-to-breast contact into the bedroom program. If she doesn’t let you take off her bra but you have a strong feeling that she wants to have sex, simply skip this step. Next up is her panties. It’s extremely rare that I take off a girl’s panties and not have sex with her. Panties are sex. It’s for this reason that you may get very firm resistance here even though she didn’t resist you at prior steps. Just treat it like any other form of resistance and start over if she stops you, making a panty removal attempt every 10-15 minutes. At this stage you will use raw persistence to break down any remaining resistance. To take off her panties, put your hands on the sides and wiggle them down a couple inches to gauge her reaction. After another minute, go ahead and try to pull them off if she hasn’t already done it for you. You’re almost there.

Even though I know sex is going to happen after I take off her panties, I don’t rush to it because I want to amplify the pleasure we are both experiencing. You want to tease her to the maximum so the sex is better and more memorable. Don’t give it to her when she wants it ― give it to her when she can’t take it anymore. Continue to rub, kiss, and bite. It is extremely satisfying when a girl begs for your cock, a goal you want to visualize even though it does not commonly occur during first-time sex.

Now she is going to be reaching for your cock and stroking it, maybe putting it through your pee hole. Let her stroke it as you finger her to spread the juice to the outside of her vagina in order to facilitate penetration. Then slowly take your boxers off, wiggling it down a couple inches a minute until you take it off completely when it gets halfway down your ass. Now you are both naked and your genitals are very close to coming into contact with each other. This is a good time to take about sexually transmitted diseases. There is joke in my circle that goes something like this: "If you have never had an STD, you are not a real player." I would be more than happy to take the bet that you will get an STD in the course of your lifetime, even if it’s something small like a fungal rash, crabs, or molluscum. Think of sex as like riding a motorcycle―a fun but dangerous activity where risk can only be minimized, not eliminated. You can use a condom 100% of the time and still get warts around your crotch. So here is what you do: minimize risk to the best of your ability and just live the lifestyle you want. Wear condoms regularly and consistently, but don’t freak out and question your existence if you do get something. Treat it and deal with it like a man. If you can’t handle the possibility of getting a minor skin disease, then this game is not for you.

As for HIV, it’s not something you should worry about unless you are gay or an IV drug user. Getting HIV is the culmination of a pattern of extremely risky behavior, not a one shot deal that strikes virgins whose condom broke the first time they had sex. It’s rare that you will get the biggest STD in the world without getting the other ones first, but don’t take my word for it: do your own research. Personally, I would not have sex with a girl who does IV drugs or gets banged in the butt by bisexual men. I advise against going raw dog unless you are in a committed relationship and somewhat certain she is not screwing other guys, but if you do it raw then make sure you never ejaculate inside her, even if she is on the pill. Not only is the pill not 100% effective, no girl is perfect with taking it every day. Because you don’t want your player career to end prematurely with a newborn, don’t ejaculate inside a girl unless you accept the chance of having a baby with her.

Back to sex. Once you are both naked, be careful about rubbing your cock against the outside of her vagina. It’s dangerous because you may get so turned on that you keep going and don’t bother with protection. If she grabs your cock and tries to put it in raw, you defi-nitely want to use a condom because this is a behavior she has most likely done before. It will be music to your ears if she says something like, "Do you have a condom?" But most girls won’t do this so you need a smooth way to get the condom without having to remind her that sex is about to happen. Memorize these seven words: "Let me get something just in case." Girls rarely resist this because it doesn’t imply that sex is going to happen. More importantly, it lets you get the condom without making her think about it. Grab a condom and put it on while still kissing to distract her from thinking about what’s about to happen. Remember, you never want her logical brain to do any thinking or else she will come up with reasons not to have sex. Make sure you practice putting on condoms if you are not already fast at it because you don’t want to fumble this step. There is a slight chance she resists you on the "just in case" line. We need a good response because we’re too far now to turn back and count on a next time. If she says anything it’s probably going to be "Why?" or "I don’t know." Your answer: "For rubbing, so we are completely safe. I’m just going to leave it on." Then you get the condom without waiting for her answer and put it on yourself. You should be very hesitant to give up at this point, but don’t use physical force and don’t keep going if she says "no" or "stop." All these techniques and moves are used to barrel through resistance on a girl who wants to have sex with you but is scared of looking like a slut. Having sex with a girl who does not want to have sex with you is rape. Once the condom is on, don’t wait for more than thirty seconds before you start making genital-on-genital contact. If she’s not wet on the outside then you want to finger her to spread her juice around. Or discreetly spit on your hand to lubricate your cock. Rub the outside of her vagina with your cock until the tip falls into place and you push in to make that first penetration. Pump slowly, getting slightly farther in with each pump until you cock is wet and it goes in and out with ease. Congratulate yourself on the notch. In bed I like to start off on top until I get tired. Then I put her on top to regain energy before I flip her around and bang her doggy style to finish myself off. Don’t ask her permission to change positions ― just do it. If you typically last under five minutes then I recommend you try numbing condoms at least for the first time you have sex. If a girl is whining about wanting to get banged more, just do her a second or third time where you are going to last much longer. The first time is for you and the second time can be for her, after you already have your main orgasm.