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Next up is her vagina. Just like with the breast, you are going to do a drive-by vagina rub with your hand over her clothes. Gauge her reaction. If she didn’t recoil, return again soon, this time pausing over the vagina and giving it more pressure. Your goal with vagina rubs, initially at least, is to help more with escalation than giving pleasure. We need her to accept this move to proceed. It’s at this stage where most guys get their first dose of resistance. When it comes to resistance, there are two types of no. The first is, "No, I wouldn’t have sex with you if the continuation of the human species depended on it," and the second is, "No, I don’t want to have sex you, yet." The former can never be overcome, but the latter can. If at any point she is resisting you―and it will be obvious when she does―you want to take a step back. Give her a little smile and then stop doing whatever you are doing to place a little bit of distance between you and her. Appear completely fine with her telling you to slow down, and then say, "I want you to be completely comfortable, so I don’t want you to do something you don’t want to do." The purpose of saying this is to let her know you are a safe guy, that you have the control to stop at any time to respect her limits, and she should give serious thought to letting herself go since you are obviously an awesome teddy bear. When you pull back in the bedroom, you create an uncomfortable vacuum that begs to be filled. You cause the girl to experience a temporary feeling of insecurity that can only be relieved by her coming closer to you in the form of touching or kissing. If she doesn’t came back at you after you pull away then it’s usually a sign that things will probably not get much farther on this night. Either way, after you get resistance you want to "restart" just like you would in a video game when your character dies. In the bedroom, go back to the beginning by focusing on simple kissing and touching, redoing the moves you did before. Then when you eventually return 10-15 minutes later to the move that she resisted on, your odds of passing will be much higher. If she resists you for a second time on the exact same move, your character dies and you have to start all over again. If she resists you for a third time on the exact same move, same thing―start all over again. You keep going until you feel a weird vibe where it seems like you are going backwards instead of forwards. In many cases you will get past resistance on the second or third attempt of a certain step only to be stymied at the next one. Even though resistance is not fun to take, you want to push just a bit more than you feel comfortable with so things are easier for you on the next date. If you have her almost naked and she is resisting, simply lay next to her, relax for a few minutes, then restart with touching and kissing until she gets hot again. The teasing you have been doing prior to this bedroom moment, such as brushing against her lips and pulling back, should have lessened the amount of resistance that you would have received otherwise. Sometimes it evaporates all together. Resistance is a normal part of the game that should not discourage you. One of my first bedroom beliefs was that I needed to avoid getting resistance. I thought that a girl would like me less if she had to resist me, but this is not the case. To give you an example, there was one girl who resisted me seven times on our first date when I tried to take her panties off before I finally gave up. She was like a "no" broken record that night, but I had sex the next time I saw her after almost no resistance. Remember: girls reward aggressive guys who want to have sex with them, not timid guys who wait for pussy to fall from the sky. The restart technique can be performed indefinitely until she gives sincere complaints about your persistence that clearly shows she is getting uncomfortable. You’ll know because she’ll stop kissing and engaging you. But if she jokes around with something like, "You are an aggressive one," keep going. After you get passed the vagina rub without resistance, do the hand-on-crotch move, the most important bedroom move we have. It’s bold but extremely effective. At this point you have been doing most of the touching, but what you want to do now is open the floodgates and give her permission to be the sexual being that she really is. When one of her hands is near your waist, gently grab it and place it right on your cock over your clothes. The length of time she spends on your cock tells you what your immediate chances of banging are. If she goes at it and basically tries to give you a hand job through your clothes, there is a good chance that you will laid. But if she acts like your cock is a smoldering piece of metal that must not be touched, then you can mentally prepare for which porno clip you will masturbate to once you are home alone. You want her to spend at least ten voluntary seconds giving your cock some attention. While ten seconds doesn’t sound like a long time, it is enough so that we can proceed without cause for worry. If she doesn’t give your cock any attention, I would consider that resistance and restart from the top until you repeat the move once more.

After the hand-on-crotch move, prepare for clothing removal. There is no clear time guideline for how long it takes to get to this point because it depends on the girl and how much resistance you get. On average it takes me about 15-45 minutes before I start thinking about taking off her clothes, but with heavy resistance it may take up to two hours. Let at least a few minutes go by between removal of each article of clothing. The shoes come off first. All you have to say is, "Why don’t you take off your shoes?" If she asks why, give a look like she asked a weird question and say, "To be more comfortable, of course." If she is on your bed, you can say that you don’t want her to get your bed dirty. If she refuses to take off her shoes, she is not planning on staying long. Next is her shirt, an important step that is a frequent source of resistance. There are two ways of taking off her shirt: telling her to do it or doing it yourself. If you tell a girl to take off her shirt then you better be a confident mother fucker because she’ll be able to tell if you are a beta posing as an alpha. Say, "Take off your shirt," in a matterof-fact tone that is not a demand or a question. Say it like you would say, "The sun is bright today." I usually say this when she on top and straddling me. Some girls will take it off immediately, but others will play a little game, saying something like, "You want me to take off my shirt? Say please." Since all you have to do to get that shirt off is say please, go ahead and say it because it’s okay to let her feel like she has some control over what’s going on. If she hesitates, say, "I’ll do it," and then start taking off her shirt. You can take off her shirt without using words by gradually moving it up as you touch and rub her torso. You inch up the shirt over the course of a minute, taking note if she tries to pull it back down, and then go for it by trying to lift it off. In most cases she will assist you and take the shirt off herself. If she resists, start over. Her shirt has to come off before yours. This is because you are going to feel like an idiot if you are half-naked and she refuses to take anything off. Once you get her shirt off, let a minute or two go by and then take off your shirt. You can say, "I’m going to take off mine too so you don’t feel left out."

Next up are socks. First take off hers, then followed by yours. It’s very rare a girl will resist you taking off her socks. But if she does, simply skip this step and move on to the next one. Unlike most previous steps, taking off her socks is not necessary to continue because you can always try again later when more clothing is gone. Still, I imagine it would be awkward if you were having sex with a girl and her socks were on.