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If you strip sex down to its physical component, it is an act whereby a man inserts a rod-shaped mass of engorged tissue into a woman’s lubricated cavity, also made of tissue. A man rubs his rod in and out, stimulating pleasure receptors until his brain decides on the right time to eject a genetic package that is important in continuing our species. Evolution tells a man’s genes to impregnate as many women as possible while telling a woman’s genes to be more choosy, since having a child for her is risky and energy intensive. Women are supposed to have sex only with men who have the resources to raise a potential child, but thanks to contraception, women now have sex with men whose children they do not want to bear. Contraception has tripped millions of years of evolution to the advantage of the man, who can have sex with a large variety of women without having to worry about having children.

What type of man gets rewarded with the most sex? An alpha male with two very important skill sets. The first skill set makes women desire him through the use of game, in the form of personality, routines, and moves. This creates attraction, trust, comfort, and rapport. While the strawberry game, for example, won’t do much on its own, it is extremely powerful in cementing sexual interest when used with other game components. The second skill set is persistence, which capitalizes on a woman’s impulsive nature. Your persistence is firm but not desperate, where you understand women need more encouragement than men when it comes to sex. If you only have the first skill set, you will have a type of "showboat" game where you can get numbers and make-outs with ease but only get laid when the girl is unusually horny and motivated. The force of your personality alone will not be able to get her in bed: only with the addition of a persistent mindset can you push all the way to the end. A girl’s job is to resist penetration, even with the worthiest of men, and continue resisting as long as possible to preserve her value. She’s afraid that by having sex with you too early, you’ll think she is an easy slut not worthy of another call. Her resistance is based more on logic than emotion since she is going against what she desires. We need to break down her resistance using subtle persuasion and mind tactics that move the decision to have sex back into the emotional realm, where she cannot help but succumb to her desire. You provide an environment where she gets "caught in the moment" and things "just happen" and "felt natural." Another way to break down resistance is to pound away like a hammer until she just gets tired and gives in. This is not an elegant approach but it works because any type of human resistance can be broken down with pressure. We’re going to use a combination of both approaches.

I last left off with you at her place needing to use the bathroom. It’s possible that she is at your place, wanting to see those travel pictures or to have a drink. Or maybe it’s the same night you met her and you venue changed her and her friend into a tiny apartment. The kiss has probably happened by now but if not then you can knock it out once inside, using the techniques already described. Play it cool by not immediately touching or kissing her. After you use the bathroom, explore her living space by making comments and asking questions about her books or pictures. Spend at least five minutes letting her get comfortable with you inside her place by not getting physically close. If during those five minutes she reminds you that she needs to get up early and you should get going, then that means you are not getting laid tonight. You’ll also know she doesn’t want you to stay when she leaves her shoes on and stands by the door. Simply give her a hug goodbye and make out with her a little bit, squeezing in a little ass grab if you haven’t already. Whenever you part ways with a girl, don’t tell her when you are going to call her. Instead say, "Talk to you soon," and give her a quick kiss goodbye. If she doesn’t try to kick you out in those first five minutes, she is giving you a green light to escalate, which means sex is a very real possibility. If she is showing you around the house, get behind her and place your hands on her hips as you move closer to resume touching and kissing. You could get things going in the living room and move later, but it’s in your best interests to get hot and heavy in the final destination of her bedroom so your game won’t be interrupted with having to relocate.

Getting in her bedroom could be just as difficult as getting in her place. Some girls think that if she lets you in her room sex will be inevitable, so she may resist you when you ask for a "tour" of her room. If she resists say, "Well, to me it’s important because you can tell a lot about a girl by how her room looks. For instance, the number of pillows is huge in knowing what kind of girl I’m dealing with." In a halfsarcastic tone you are making it seem like you need to see her room to really know her. We know this is blatant bullshit and she knows it’s bullshit, but it works because you are giving her a reason to let you enter her room without making it obvious that sex will happen. If she resists then just continue in the living room. If you are in your house, getting her to the bedroom will be very easy since it will be a part of your tour and it will have something that you have to show her, like the Spongebob Squarepants pillow on your bed. In theory, you shouldn’t have to work hard to get a girl horny because she should be the one to get you horny. You should just have to lay back, allow her to take off your clothes, and let her please you with deep throat blowjobs. While you will eventually sleep with many girls who like to attack you in the bedroom, it will be rare for this to happen the first time you have sex. This is why you always need to initiate the important moves of clothing removal and genital touching. She will not do it for you!

We are getting to the part of the game that is like those novels with multiple endings. There are a lot of ways to get to sex once you have her in a bedroom and it’s going to be rare you do it the exact same way twice. What I’m going to describe is a way that is natural and reliable. It includes key moves and lines to blow through resistance, but it is still going to be up to you to be aware of what’s going on and customize your moves to account for her unique likes and dislikes. If she is going crazy with pleasure over something I only mentioned in passing, you may want to give it extra attention. Once you have a girl alone and it’s clear she doesn’t mind you staying, kiss and explore her body with your hands. The ass is fair game but don’t touch her breasts or vagina yet. Massage and squeeze her inner thigh near her vagina as you make out with her. Once you get within a couple inches of her vagina, she is probably going to squeeze her legs in, something normal that you shouldn’t be concerned about. Send your mouth off to areas other than her lips, like her neck and ear. Put more passion and intensity into your kisses by adding more tongue, teeth, squeezes, and heavy breathing. You should be able to feel her enjoying the intimacy and getting more comfortable with you. This means she is not resisting by grabbing your hands and moving them off her body. Are her eyes closed to indicate she is losing herself in the moment? Is she telling you how much she likes what you are doing? Is she starting to get aggressive by nibbling on your ear or sucking on your neck? If heavy petting started in the living room, say, "I think we should go to your bedroom where it’s more comfortable."

Focus next on her breasts. While your hand is exploring her torso, you want to do a breast drive-by by simply rubbing over one of her breasts like it’s just any other part of her body. You will find that girls don’t resist breast touching because it’s similar to an ass squeeze, something you’ve already done. A couple minutes after the breast drive-by, you want to park your hand on her breast for a few seconds and give it a slight squeeze. She didn’t slap your hand off her breast, right? Now let your hands go on an a random loop of touching and rubbing which include her face, hair, breasts, torso, ass, hands, and legs. Have fun turning on both her and yourself.