Violet Blue - The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio - How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure

That is, until Jarred uses his teeth.

Not to bite, but to nip, so lightly that I feel I am going to cry. It’s unlike any other thing he does. Unlike any other sensation I’ve ever experienced. He lets his lips part, lets his tongue rest behind his lower teeth, and works me up and down with just the bare edges of his teeth, the very, very tips of them. It’s like being cradled between the jaws of a lion.

I see pictures in my mind when he does this. I think of Jarred at his studio, surrounded by sculptures in progress, surrounded by stone, by wet clay. I think of him with his abundant utensils and interesting tools, scratching softly in the surface. Then digging a little deeper. Making a mark.

To him, I know, I am a work in progress, a piece of art that calls out to be completed. And with his little tricks he claims me, names me, his voice a rumble behind my cock as he starts to talk.

“Suck harder,” he says in a tone that is almost a whisper. “Suck me like you mean it, Michael.” The rumbling vibrations of his words against my skin send me higher, and I do as he asks. My mouth closes in, the walls of my throat become tight. I am a vacuum. I am a machine. Slow becomes fast as I slide my mouth back and forth, giving him everything he wants. Who am I to hold back? Who am I to withhold pleasure?

Lips, tongue, sweet, wet mouth. Hard, soft, changing like the light changes in the room. Like the music changes one wall away. We are in tune. We are jazz. In perfect synch, we work each other. His bone moves deeper, deeper into my throat, and I swallow as forcefully as I can against him. I want to drain him. I want to devour him.

He echoes every motion. Until I forget who started what. Until I forget where I end and he begins. And then one of us does something new, and off we go on another route. My hand now around the base of his cock, holding tight there as I lick the tip. His fingers pressing up behind my balls, teasing me there, when he knows just a little pressure at that magic spot will make me want to fuck him. Roll over and just fuck him. It’s like this forever. Slip-sliding up to the climax and then back down from it.

My mouth is a hungry beast, and I swallow on him once again. Jarred won’t let me get away with that. He uses the whole flat of his tongue to massage and caress underneath the head of my cock, so that I release him completely and loll back on the mattress, unable to move because it feels so fucking good.

We are playing a game without rules.

Playing like boys do, to see who will win.

Nothing is more fun than having choices and possibilities—and fellatio is amazingly adaptable to environment, preference, and personal style. You can custom-tailor a session of head to suit your needs or your partner’s needs in almost any way imaginable. A position can enhance physical pleasure or a conjured fantasy. Fellatio can be the ticket to overcoming physical obstacles, such as a disability. You can use fellatio performed on a strap-on to set fire to an already sizzling sex life. Or, you can explore the ways to customize your physical approach to giving head to make it more comfortable, combat jaw fatigue, or strengthen your skills by learning how to take a penis or dildo all the way in your mouth and throat: learning to “deep throat.”

Fellatio feels good to the recipient in pretty much any angle you choose to give it, and there are a lot of positions to choose from. As a sex act it affords the uniqueness of being able to be performed virtually anywhere. Because it’s so versatile, the positions you can use vary greatly, and they can depend on location and circumstance. Trying fellatio in new locations and new positions can spice things up; a change in your routine or simply trying something you haven’t tried before can make the experience a bigger turn-on for both of you than your previous oral escapades.

Each position has advantages and disadvantages. Certain positions will afford you more access to his genitals, might make it easier for you to take more of him in your mouth, or may give you a psychological rush with their fantasy implications. However, you may find that some positions make you gag more than others because of the angle, are tough on your knees or jaw, or cause you to feel uncomfortable for other reasons. One thing to keep in mind when you consider positions is that you may be in any given position for a good amount of time, so you will want to take into account how comfortable you’ll be after, say, fifteen minutes or longer. There is no established amount of time to orgasm for men, or women for that matter, and if you think that men orgasm reliably and quickly as a rule, then you’re in for a surprise—and maybe some leg and neck cramps while you’re at it. Choose positions that are comfy for the two of you, and don’t be shy about changing positions or moving him around in different configurations.

I’ve always found it works best with him lying down or leaning back, and to kneel beside him approaching him perpendicularly.

The position that lends itself easily to variety and comfort is having him lie on his back with a pillow under his head on a bed, the ground, a couch, or any flat spot. It provides the best access to his entire genital area and allows him to lie back and completely relax and enjoy. This position allows you to easily include his testicles in the action, or incorporate penetration, rimming, pressure points, or any other tricks you have in store. You can place yourself between his legs, or move around his body as you like. If you’re on your stomach, this position can get a little tiresome on your neck, but you can alleviate strain by changing positions, using these variations:

• On your stomach between his legs, prop yourself up on your elbows and grasp his buttocks or hips.

• With your elbows propped, have him put one or both legs over your shoulders.

• Have him hold his knees to his chest.

• Have him place his feet on your shoulders.

• Kneel or crouch between his legs, leaving your hands free to help, wander, tease.

• With his legs spread around you, keep your hands on his groin area and press his hips down using your forearms and the weight of your body on his hips.

• Wrap your arms under his thighs, and toward you over his hips. You can guide his cock easily from this position.

• Sit on his legs, forcing them flat and rendering them immobile.

• Lick from a right angle, one side or the other. You can kneel, crouch, lie sideways, or adjust pillows under you for comfort. You can face him, or face his feet.

• Sit on his chest, facing away from him. He gets a nice view, you get access to him, and the angle is good for alleviating the gag reflex.

My first time sucking cock was quick and nasty, and now that’s the way I like it best.

When most folks think of fellatio, the image of someone on their knees comes readily to mind. At some point in your fellatio adventures, you’re bound to wind up on your knees, whether your lover is standing or seated. Kneeling might be the best possible choice for a given situation or circumstance—for instance, if you’re outdoors, being spontaneous in the bathroom, shoving him up against a wall and having your way with him, or engaging in a “quickie.” Your hands are free to roam, fondle testicles, guide his penis, or pull him into your mouth by his hips or buttocks. But kneeling isn’t for everyone, because it is tough on the knees—though you may be having so much fun you don’t notice until it’s all over. If your knees ache or strain but you don’t want to give up the position, switch to crouching or squatting. Crouching also makes it easier to masturbate while you fellate.