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Спасибо всем моим уважаемым читателям за невероятную поддержку, которую мне оказали с тех пор, как я впервые начала писать об этой теме в 2014 году, и всем мужественным жертвам насилия, которые поделились со мной своими историями. Я особенно благодарна моим трудолюбивым родителям, Рехане и Мохаммеду, которые неустанно работали, чтобы их дети смогли осуществить свои мечты в Америке. Я благодарна моей сестре Тане, которая всегда поддерживала мои мечты в сфере писательства. Спасибо чудесным профессорам и наставникам, которые все эти годы помогали мне развиваться в писательском мастерстве и науке: Лоре Полан, доктору Джону Арчеру, доктору Аарону Палласу, доктору Холли Паркер, доктору Морин Маклейн, доктору Хоуп Лейхтер, доктору Саре Клейман, доктору Джеймсу Улеману, доктору Элсуорт Ферш, доктору Элизабет Малуф, Луизе Лассон (лицензированный клинический социальный работник), доктору Рональду Корбетту и доктору Карен Адольф. Спасибо Джеймсу Зике, Терри Пауэллу и Анджеле Гарсиа за поддержку моего профессионального развития.