Chetan Parkyn - Human Design - How to discover the real you

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Every so often, there is a discovery that brings about a great catalyst in understanding, allowing for personal awakening. Very rarely, there comes along an individual capable of conveying something esoteric so that the rest of us can benefit from its truth. The Human Design system’s complexities and Chetan Parkyn’s clarity are demonstration of those two unique happenings coming together for the common good, a system long overdue finding perfect fusion with a teacher who has always been ahead of his time.

I have always been one who seeks, looking for clues that could unravel the mystery of life and allow me to become a better person. That’s why I particularly remember the defining moments in life when one becomes acquainted with a self – awareness that opens the eyes and turns on the light bulbs.

For me, one such moment was the auspicious day when I was introduced to the English gentleman Chetan Parkyn and given a Human Design reading. It was more than a decade ago, on the island of Maui, Hawaii, that this stranger with friendly eyes and a velvet voice started to ‘read’ my ‘design for life’ as if he had known me since the day I was born.

I’d had previous experiences with astrology and other forms of readings, but nothing could compare to the prescience of a system that was, through Chetan, reading my true nature and resonating with every instinct, emotion, thought and sensation I had ever felt. One technical chart and one man from Shropshire, England, combined to inform me of the person I was designed to be and the life I was designed to lead. In that moment, Human Design emerged as a dynamic crystal ball into my world, past, present and future. It unlocked an inner code I’d never encountered in other disciplines, a code I could apply to my way of being, my decision – making, and my clarity about what and how I thought and felt.

This multi – faceted system has also enabled me to better understand the ‘designs’ of others; shining a light on certain behaviours and attitudes of those intimate in my world, including my children and friends.

Ten years on, I continue to check in with Chetan and keep that original Human Design chart as a constant companion and guide. It has become my road map through life. I get to be my own hero. I get to be in control of my runaway train when that happens, remembering that I’m always in the driver’s seat. It has been cathartic and invigorating to know that it’s okay to be who I am, and to know when to move into action and when to retreat. Believe me when I say that what you are about to discover is liberating stuff!

For many memorable years I played a significant part alongside my former husband, Anthony Robbins, witnessing the enormous difference people felt when they harnessed an inner power, motivating themselves to accomplish great things. I travelled the world as both a co – creator and witness to a phenomenal rise in self – awareness, seeing at first hand how personal empowerment could transform lives. ‘Awakening the Giant Within’ was ripe for its time. Likewise, Human Design is ripe for today’s world and brings the same potential for self – empowerment. It is a journey of self – discovery which can, and should, be taken and applied to the family and community. I say this because its effect on my life continues to be profound. It served me and induced strength at my lowest ebb, and now, when healed and happy again, it allows me to experience the joy of freedom and lasting fulfilment. Quite simply, it has allowed me to know myself.

I encourage you, too, to jump into this inner knowledge about yourself and celebrate the gifts within, thanking the illumination granted by Chetan, whose genius and huge heart have made this system logical and applicable to our lives.

Becky Robbins

‘I wanted to dismiss Human Design as cobblers,but you read me to the point where I couldn’t deny it.You should write a book about this one day.’

DS, Yorkshire, UK

‘Just be yourself,’ they say. How many times have we heard that? It’s often said to help ease a nervous first date, a daunting social invitation or the first day on a new job. There is always someone armed with that well – intentioned advice: ‘Don’t worry, just be yourself and everything will be fine!’

The problem is this: how many of us know what being ourselves actually means? Who is this ‘true self’ – the private inner being that hides behind the mask it wears for most public interactions, that real person we are when stripped of our ego and acts of social graces aimed at winning respect, approval or popularity?

Psychologists the world over would say that millions of people pass through life without ever realizing what comprises their true self. It’s as though we have forgotten our unique individuality in the collective rush to be all things to all people; to fit the picture – perfect portrayals in magazines, television dramas and movies. It’s as though the naturalness and authenticity with which we were all born – and which we unleashed with unaffected abandon as children – has been crushed, repressed or even disallowed.

Instead, conformity and responsibility in adulthood have combined to distort or shrink our true natures. Millions of us parade as someone other than our true selves without even realizing it, adopting an ‘acting personality’ shaped by the conditioning of our pasts and the judgements, expectations and rules of others. Along the way, we’ve picked up and collected traits and acceptable responses that are deemed the ‘norm’, so there’s always a tendency to act as we believe we should act, or how we’ve been trained to act, all the time keeping our inner beings bound and gagged.

In that regard, I am reminded of a woman who sought me out to help rediscover a lost connection to the real person who, she said, had mysteriously disappeared during her marriage. Jayne told me:

‘All I want is to be myself again, act like myself again, feel like myself again. I don’t want to be this person I’ve created and become. I know the real me is different, waiting to get out and be braver, less afraid of being hurt, less worried about the judgements of others, less afraid of taking on the world, desperate to laugh and dance again. She’s in there. I know she is. But I’ve no idea where to look anymore. I need to be reminded of the me that has become lost.’

Like Jayne, most of us adopt a persona – a word which originates from the Greek for ‘mask’. But what really matters is the authentic person behind the mask; that we are ‘seen’ and recognized for who we truly are.

In writing this book I hope to bring you back home to the essence and safe harbour of your inner being, reuniting you with the person you were born to be and the life you were meant to live. That’s why this is not a self – help book, but a self – reminder, directing you to rediscover the essence and uniqueness of the real you.

What I’m introducing is a one – of – its – kind system and self – awareness tool called ‘Human Design’, a system where science meets spirituality, a system which intends you to be loved, accepted and understood for who you are. Which is why it asks one question at the outset: ‘Are you living your human design?’

This system is built on the wisdom that the acceptance and embracing of your true nature are the essence of finding personal happiness, fulfilment and freedom which, in turn, can lead to finding and creating healthier relationships.

This book is the culmination of 15 years in the field of Human Design. I have immersed myself in its truths, giving one – on – one readings and holding group seminars, and it has been a long – held wish of mine to share its prescient insights with a much wider audience because of the quiet revolutions it kick – starts.