Mark Dice - Liberalism - Find a Cure

Most young men today wouldn’t even know how to approach a beautiful girl in person, chat her up, and ask for a date. Instead they sit on their phones and “swipe” through Tinder profiles as if they’re scrolling through a magazine or a menu. 799

Dating is seen as strange to them. “Going out” has been replaced by “Netflix and Chill” which is their only idea of a good time, and Millennials are having less sex than previous generations because they are afraid of real intimacy due to their stunted social skills from spending too much time living in their virtual worlds. 800Many of those who are having sex see one-night stands or “friends with benefits” as the norm and sleep around with multiple different people within their group of friends without entering into long-term or serious relationships.

There are core principles that happy couples have practiced for thousands of years, but unfortunately today many people shun the long-held traditions thinking they can reinvent the wheel and come up with odd new ideas about what relationships should be, which only lead to disaster.

So many people are starving for human affection in our online and isolating world that a new industry has been growing: Professional Cuddling. People actually pay money to cuddle with complete strangers. One business in Portland was booked for two months after it first opened. It’s called “Cuddle Up to Me” and they have an office with six different “cuddling rooms” where customers pay up to $80 an hour. 801

This isn’t a front for prostitution. It is literally a place where people go to cuddle with someone they’ve never met before and pay for it because they are so lonely and desperate for human touch.

Many psychologists also believe that too much porn and video games are causing a “masculinity crisis” for the younger generations since they have an endless supply at the tips of their fingers. 802Many boys now turn to porn instead of pursuing relationships with girls because they’re so afraid of getting rejected since they don’t have the adequate social skills to confidently communicate with someone they’re attracted to. Porn addiction is a real problem, and it literally rewires the reward centers of our brains and over time actually causes erectile dysfunction when in the presence of an actual naked female from what’s called “porn-induced erectile dysfunction.” 803

Unprotected sex is a danger too many people continue to ignore which is also part of the problem. The term should be “safer sex” not “safe,” because condoms often break or aren’t used properly, and birth control pills can fail or are forgotten, and even the combination of the two can, and does fail. Most people have sex with someone they’ve known just a few hours, and with whom they don’t have enough in common with to enjoy an hour-long lunch, but they jump into bed with each other putting their entire future family tree at risk of becoming dysfunctional.

Having a child with a woman who your interests, values, and goals aren’t compatible with, and who you won’t partner up with to raise the child is automatically putting the kid at a tremendous disadvantage in life by forcing him or her to grow up in a single parent home.

Of course there’s the financial burden of being a parent, and the incredible amount of time they have to invest in raising the child. So don’t ruin your life, and don’t ruin your child’s life by having one with a person you’re not in love with and know you won’t marry. Does this mean no sex until marriage? That can be pretty tough, but at the least it should mean no sex until commitment, and even then, be extremely careful and always use condoms, birth control, pull out, and throw in some spermicide too!

While relationships and marriage can be difficult, liberals often exacerbate these difficulties because they keep doing the fundamentals wrong. Many now are openly calling for an end to marriage altogether. Feminist Merav Michaeli is hoping for a “paradigm shift” regarding marriage, and wants society to “cancel marriage.”

In 2012 she gave a Tedx talk saying that marriage is out-dated and “unevolved.” She clarified, “Not only religious marriage… also civil marriage. I want all secular states to totally eliminate all registration and regulation of marriage. I want to cancel the very concept of marriage.” 804

Feminist poet and novelist Robin Morgan agrees, saying, “We can’t destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.” 805A lesbian activist and author named Masha Gessen once admitted that the real goal of getting gay “marriage” legalized was to eventually eliminate marriage and monogamous relationships altogether. “Gay marriage is a lie,” she said, while on a panel at the Sydney Writers Festival in 2012. “Fighting for gay marriage generally involves lying about what we’re going to do with marriage when we get there,” she admitted. “It’s a no-brainer that the institution of marriage should not exist,” she concluded, which caused the audience to break out in applause. 806

There are an increasing number of news stories about couples in “open marriages” who are technically married, but date and have sex with other people. Swingers have been a small subculture that we’ve all heard about, but the practice is getting more accepted and the liberal media continues to publish glowing reviews about couples who do it.

On Father’s Day in 2017, the New York Times published a video titled “Married, Dating Other People and Happy,” featuring five different people who talked about how “great” their open marriages are. The Times chose Father’s Day of all days to release the video because they wanted to attack the nuclear family on this special day by promoting this liberal poison. 807

CNN published an article titled “Rethinking Monogamy Today” in the spring of 2017 and suggested, “consensual non-monogamy can be a healthy option for some couples and, executed thoughtfully, can inject relationships with some much-needed novelty and excitement.” 808The story went on to tout the “benefits” of open marriages and quoted some whack job sex therapist who concluded, “couples say that consensual non-monogamy can improve their communication, because it requires a lot of talking, sharing and negotiating, (and) that can strengthen communication in other areas of the relationship, not just your sex life.” 809

It went on, “For some couples, non-exclusivity might take the form of attending ‘play parties’ together and swapping partners, watching other couples have sex, dating other people or even entering into polyamorous relationships with multiple partners. It’s also worth remembering that non-monogamy still carries a stigma in many circles, so think about how you and your partner will address that concern.”

Slate.com, a fairly popular online outlet, featured an editorial written by a man who lives with his wife and her girlfriend in a “triad,” and suggested that “balancing work, life, and leisure has never gone better.” 810He says most people are concerned about such relationships because of jealousy issues and the other obvious complications, but insists, “We’re finding that having more people around means less, not more complexity—more hands for the chores, more options for socializing and fun, an extra income to help with the bills, and more time for any one of us to spend going our own way.” 811

The Huffington Post publishes the same anti-family filth. “Do Open Marriages Work? How Dating Other People Brings Me Closer To My Husband,” is one article, written by a mother of four. 812She wrote how “sleeping with new people is a measuring stick of how connected you are to your spouse.”