The son who left will eventually return, and he will return rich in the experiences he had along the way. His father will receive him with open arms and say to his servants: “Bring the best robe for him and put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet, because my son was dead and is alive again. He was lost and is found.”
And a man whose brow was marked by time and whose body was marked by scars that told of the battles in which he had fought said:
“Speak to us of the weapons we must use when all is lost.”
And he answered:
Where there is loyalty, weapons are of no use.
All weapons are instruments of evil because they are not the instruments of the wise man.
Loyalty has its roots in respect, and respect is the fruit of Love. Love drives out the demons of the imagination—which distrust everything and everyone—and, instead, returns purity to our gaze.
When a wise man wants to make someone weak, he first makes that person believe that he is strong. The other man will then fall into the trap of challenging someone even stronger and be destroyed.
When a wise man wants to bring someone low, he first makes that person climb the highest mountain in the world to allow him the illusion that he is very powerful. The other man will then believe that he can go still higher and plunge into the abyss.
When a wise man covets something that belongs to another man, he loads him with gifts. The other man will have so many useless objects to take care of that he will lose everything else, too busy trying to keep what he thinks he owns.
When a wise man cannot discover what his opponent is planning, he feigns an attack. We are always prepared to defend ourselves, because we all live with the fear and paranoia that other people don’t like us.
His opponent—however brilliant he may be—is insecure and reacts with excessive violence to the provocation. In doing so, he reveals what weapons he has, and the wise man thus discovers what his opponent’s strong and weak points are.
Then, knowing exactly what kind of reaction to expect, the wise man either attacks or retreats.
This is how those who appear submissive and weak conquer and defeat those who are powerful and strong.
And so wise men often defeat warriors, but warriors also defeat wise men. To avoid this, it is best to seek the peace and repose that exist in the differences among human beings.
The wounded person should ask himself: “Is it worth filling my heart with hatred and dragging the weight of it around with me?”
He is thus making use of one of Love’s qualities—namely, Forgiveness. This helps him to rise above all the insults spoken in the heat of battle, insults which time will soon erase just as the wind erases footsteps from the sands of the desert.
When you forgive, the person who insulted you feels humbled in his error and becomes loyal.
Let us, therefore, be aware of the forces that move us.
The true hero is not the man who was born for great deeds, but the one who has managed to build a shield of loyalty around him out of many small things.
Thus, when he saves his adversary from certain death or from betrayal, his gesture will never be forgotten.
The true lover is not the one who says: “You need to be by my side and I need to take care of you, because we are loyal to each other,” but the one who realizes that loyalty must go hand in hand with freedom. And without fear of betrayal, he accepts and respects the other person’s dream, trusting in the greater power of Love.
The true friend is not the one who says: “You wounded me today, and I am sad.”
He says: “You wounded me today for reasons unknown to me and possibly to you as well, but tomorrow I know that I will be able to count on your help. And so I will not be sad.”
And the friend responds: “You are a loyal friend, because you said what you felt. There is nothing worse than a friend who confuses loyalty with accepting our every fault.”
The most destructive of weapons is not the spear or the siege cannon, which can wound a body and demolish a wall. The most terrible of all weapons is the word, which can ruin a life without leaving a trace of blood, and whose wounds never heal.
Let us, then, be masters of our tongue and not slaves of our words. Even if words are used against us, let us not enter a battle that cannot be won. The moment we place ourselves on the same level as some vile adversary, we will be fighting in the dark, and the only winner will be the Lord of Darkness.
Loyalty is a pearl among grains of sand, and only those who really understand its meaning can see it.
Thus the Sower of Discord can pass the same spot a thousand times and never see the little jewel that keeps those who need to remain united.
Loyalty can never be imposed by force, fear, insecurity, or intimidation.
It is a choice that only strong spirits have the courage to make.
And because it is a choice, it will never tolerate betrayal, but will always be generous with mistakes.
And because it is a choice, it withstands time and passing conflicts.
And one of the young men in the audience, seeing that the sun was almost below the horizon and that soon this encounter with the Copt would come to an end, asked:
“And what about enemies?”
And he answered:
The truly wise do not grieve over the living or the dead. Therefore, accept the battle that awaits you tomorrow because we are made of the Eternal Spirit, which often places us in situations that we need to confront.
At such moments, set aside all futile questions, because they merely slow down the warrior’s reflexes.
A warrior on the battlefield is fulfilling his destiny, and he must surrender himself to that. Pity those who think they must kill or die! The Divine Energy cannot be destroyed; it simply changes its form. The wise men of Antiquity said:
Accept this as part of some superior plan and go forward. Man is not defined by earthly battles, because just as the wind changes direction, so do luck and victory. Today’s loser will be tomorrow’s winner, but in order for that to happen, combat must be embraced with honor .
Just as someone puts on new clothes, discarding the old, so the soul accepts new material bodies, abandoning the old and the useless. Knowing this, you must not suffer because of the body .
That is the combat we will face tonight or tomorrow morning. History will record what happens.
But since we are reaching the end of our meeting, we cannot waste time on that.
I wish, therefore, to speak of other enemies: those we find beside us.
We will all have to face many adversaries in our lives, but the most difficult to defeat will be the ones we fear.
We will always meet rivals in everything we do, but the most dangerous are those we believe to be our friends.
We all suffer when our dignity is attacked or wounded, but the greatest pain will be caused by those we thought were examples to be followed.
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