Samuel T. Gladding - Becoming a Counselor

20 Section 12: Becoming a Lifelong Learner Chapter 111: Supervision Chapter 112: Court Chapter 113: Research and Theory Chapter 114: A Quiet Riot Chapter 115: Reality Sits in a Green Cushioned Chair Chapter 116: Who Wants to Work? Points to Ponder

21 Section 13: Becoming an Academic Chapter 117: Oh No, a Typo Chapter 118: Mr. TBA Chapter 119: Love on an Academic Level Chapter 120: Not by Work Alone Chapter 121: Rejection Chapter 122: Just Because You’re the One and Only Doesn’t Mean You Won’t Be Left Out Cold and Lonely Chapter 123: Counselors Anonymous Points to Ponder

22 Section 14: Becoming a Family Man Chapter 124: Research and Reframing Within the Family Chapter 125: Trees With Lights Chapter 126: A New York Adventure Chapter 127: The Pace of Change Chapter 128: Attitudes Chapter 129: The Wearing of Black and Development Chapter 130: Scars Chapter 131: Changing Names Chapter 132: Resiliency and Unpredictability Chapter 133: Finding a Vision That Works Points to Ponder

23 Section 15: Becoming a Leader Chapter 134: The Human Side of Leadership Chapter 135: Dealing With the Press Can Be a Mess—But You Should Do It Chapter 136: The Leader as a Catalyst and Servant Chapter 137: Leadership in Counseling After a Crisis Chapter 138: Smoke and Mirrors Points to Ponder

24 Section 16: Becoming More Aware of Issues in Counseling Chapter 139: Counseling as a Quiet Revolution Chapter 140: Counseling in an Age of Chaos Chapter 141: Counseling in Context Chapter 142: Diagnosis, Labels, and Dialogue Chapter 143: Forgiveness Is Transformational Chapter 144: The isms in Counseling Chapter 145: Territory Folks Should Stick Together Chapter 146: Counseling or Counselling Chapter 147: Why Counseling? Points to Ponder

25 Section 17: Becoming Amid Transitions and Endings Chapter 148: Aging but Not Developing Chapter 149: Termination Chapter 150: The Quilt Chapter 151: Hair Chapter 152: Avoiding Permanent Termination Chapter 153: On Grief and Gratitude Chapter 154 Meaning and Mattering: Chapter 155: Be a Good Ancestor Chapter 156: Always Becoming Points to Ponder

26 Epilogue

27 Appendix A: A Concise History of My Life

28 Appendix B: Notes References

29 Technical Support

30 End User License Agreement

1 Title Page THIRD EDITION

2 Copyright Page Copyright © 2021 by the American Counseling Association Foundation. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. Except as permitted under the United States Copyright Act of 1976, no part of this publication may be reproduced or distributed in any form or by any means, or stored in a database or retrieval system, without the written permission of the publisher. American Counseling Association Foundation 6101 Stevenson Avenue, Suite 600 Alexandria, VA 22304 Associate Publisher • Carolyn C. Baker Digital and Print Development Editor • Nancy Driver Senior Production Manager • Bonny E. Gaston Copy Editor • Beth Ciha Cover and text design by Bonny E. Gaston Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Names: Gladding, Samuel T., author. Title: Becoming a counselor : the light, the bright, and the serious / Samuel T. Gladding. Description: Third Edition. | Alexandria : American Counseling Association Foundation, 2021. | Revised edition of the author’s Becoming a counselor, c2009. | Includes bibliographical references. Identifiers: LCCN 2021008008 | ISBN 9781556204128 (paperback) Subjects: LCSH: Counseling. | Counselors. Classification: LCC BF637.C6 G525 2021 | DDC 158.3—dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021008008

3 Dedication Page

4 Preface

5 Acknowledgments

6 About the Authors

7 The World Into Which I Was Born

8 Table of Contents

9 Begin Reading

10 Epilogue

11 Appendix A: A Concise History of My Life

12 Appendix B: Notes

13 Technical Support

14 Wiley End User License Agreement

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