Phyllis Krystal - Cutting more Ties That Bind

Phyllis Krystal

Cutting More Ties That Bind

Releasing from Inhibiting Patterns

Phyllis Krystal

Cutting More

Ties That Bind

Releasing from Inhibiting Patterns

First revised edition

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Imprint

Originally published by Element Books Limited, Longmead, Shaftsbury, Dorset, 1990

First US edition by Samuel Weiser, Inc. US, 1993

First Indian edition by Sai Towers, 1997

First revised edition

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This book is not intended to be considered a legal, medical, or any other professional service. The information provided is not a substitute for professional advice or care. If you require or desire legal, medical, or other expert assistance, you should seek the service of a competent professional. The author, the publisher, the foundation and their employees and agents are not liable for any damages arising from or in connection with the use of or reliance on any information contained in this book.

I dedicate this book to Sri Sathya Sai Baba, whose life and teachings are an inspirational example of a true educator in every sense of the word.

Phyllis Krystal

Content

Preface of the Editor / First Revised Edition

Preface of the Author

Acknowledgments

Introduction

PART I

Reprogramming and Preparation of Adults and Teachers

Cutting Ties To Parents and Other Techniques

The Tree

Negative Emotions

The Inner House

The Inner Child

The Black Cloud

Sathya Sai Baba

Education in Human Values

Truth

Right Action

Peace

Love

Non-Violence

Ceiling on Desires

Preparing for Parenthood

Preparation for the Birth of a Child

Choosing a Midwife or Doctor

Bonding the Baby with the Parents

Naming a Child

Baptism and Godparents

The Birth Chart

The Early Years: Pre-Puberty

Techniques for use with Younger Children

The Maypole

The Figure Eight

The Triangle

The Tree and Cosmic Parents

Using the Jack to Overcome Fear

Nightmares

The Beach Ball

The Cylinder

The Scales and Signposts for Decision-Making

The Mandala and Pyramid for Developing the Four Functions

The Mandala

Pyramid

Puberty Rites

Love

Parental Control

How Teachers can Help

The Maypole

The Circle of Golden Light

Addictions

PART II

Who are We and Why are We Here?

Why Are We Here?

Who is Your Puppeteer?

Early Conditioning

Symbols

Detaching Ourselves from Roles

Men and Women

Male and Female Roles

Son and Daughter

Brother and Sister

Grandson and Grand-daughter

Mother and Father

Grandparents

Other Roles

Balloon and Nest-of-dolls Roles

The Balloon

The Nest of Dolls

The Hour Glass

The Effect of Roles on Future Relationships

Identification with Occupation or Profession

Inherited and Behavioural Patterns

Projection of Animus and Anima

Sub-Personalities

Hall of Mirrors

Using Clay Models to Symbolise Aspects of the Personality

Freedom from Fear of Rejection

Traditions, Customs and Mores

Prejudices

National Characteristics

Individual Attachments

World Religions and their Effects

Christianity

The Protestant Church

Judaism

Mormonism

Communism

Reincarnation and Karma

Past Lives

The Persian Woman

The Japanese Girl

The Jew

The Tibetan

A life at the time of Jesus

Lextra

Dreams

Universal Symbols

Animals

Yin and Yang

Moving Vehicles, Transportation

Bodies of Water

Thoroughfares

Personal Dream Symbolism

Thought and Thought-Forms

Annex: Cutting from a Symbol

Index

About the Author

The Editor

Preface of the Editor / First Revised Edition

Once Phyllis received the Method “Cutting the Ties that Bind”, she became committed to spreading the Method to as many people as possible exactly the way she had been shown. The Phyllis Krystal Foundation is happy to present you with this revised edition of the book, first published in 1990.

This version of the book is identical to the original except that:

1) Passages highlighted in grey have been added by the editor, containing additional information given by Phyllis Krystal since the first edition from 1990.

2) The editor has made the subject of sentences gender neutral except where the examples specifically relate to a male or female subject.

Preface of the Author

In the first book, readers are shown how to detach themselves from the more obvious outer security symbols or controlling factors in their lives, such as parents, teachers, family members, partners and friends, as well as material objects and aims such as money, jobs, cars, houses and various addictions.

But, after a person is free from these outer controls, there are many inner ones, to be released. These include inherited characteristics, character traits, familial behavioural patterns, religious and family affections, and a multitude of other influences to which we are heir as soon as we are born and take our place as members of a family.

After the first book had come out, specific techniques were forthcoming which clearly belonged in another book – this one.

Both my previous books had been started during visits to see Sathya Sai Baba in India. While staying at his ashram, I was able to concentrate for long uninterrupted periods, which is rarely the case during my very busy life at home, when my days are full, working with people individually, conducting seminars, answering the many letters and telephone calls requesting help, in addition to running a house and carrying out the duties of wife, mother, grandmother and friend. So, again, I decided to start the actual writing of this book on our next visit to Baba.