Highly Sensitive:
The Practical Manual For Dealing With High Sensitivity And Highly Sensitive People
(High Sensitivity Guide: Including Many Tips And Tricks For Private And Professional Everyday Life)
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What is high sensibility?
What does high sensitivity mean?
How does high sensitivity work?
The Gift
The advantages of high sensitivity
Self-reflection
Recognizing High Sensitivity
Special features of high sensitivity
High sensitivity - a new trend
Tired of impressions
High Sensitivity as High Giftedness
Wrong Therapies
High sensitivity and fears
Just stress or highly sensitive?
The biological side
Anxiety disorders
The Similarity of Stress, Anxiety and High Sensitivity
Dealing with one's own high sensitivity
Your own life
In the peace lies the strength
See high sensitivity as a gift
Dealing with other highly sensitive people
The normal respect
Negative feelings
Dealing with each other
High sensitivity in the partnership
Highly sensitive people are shy
Love as a burden
Self-confidence
The Sex
Communication
Dealing with a highly sensitive partner
Conflict situations
Energy management
Taking High Sensitivity Seriously
Communication means listening
Communication means exchanging information
Acceptance and patience
Dealing with high sensitivity at work
High sensitivity and its two sides
Highly sensitive integration
The working day
The colleagues
Dealing with highly sensitive children
Recognizing High Sensitivity in a Child
The Gift
A disease-causing environment
Taking the child seriously
The accompaniment
Tips for dealing with high sensitivity on a daily basis
Take your time
Avoid dealing with the wrong people
Avoid crowds
Play someone else
Aids
The right routine makes the difference
The place of life
The right job
Cut yourself off
Bottom line
Introduction
What is it that all people, each for themselves and all together, want? What wish do they have that always drives them? It's the desire to accept oneself. It is the desire to simply be at peace with oneself, to be satisfied with oneself, and to be able to suffer oneself.
Many people fight with themselves all their lives. They see themselves in a bad light, they have inferiority complexes and they even condemn themselves. This can affect everyone, and there are people for whom it is much more difficult to accept themselves. We're talking about the highly sensitive among us.
Highly sensitive people perceive everything much more strongly than others. That's why they suffer much more from rejection. But they experience the rejection from others, because they are not like them. The rejection is transmitted and in the end many highly sensitive people reject themselves.
But what many overlook is that high sensitivity, like so many other things, has two sides. That means it's as much a curse as a gift. What's the difference? Only what the affected person himself makes of it. That is why it is so important that you understand your unique position as a highly sensitive person and make the most of it for yourself. And there's a lot you can do with it.
However, not every reader of this book is directly affected by the subject of high sensitivity. There are also many indirectly affected people who have a highly sensitive person in their lives, a person who is important to them. This can be a friend, your own partner, your own child or a colleague at work.
Even for those not directly affected, the subject of high sensitivity is a double-edged sword. If you approach it correctly, undreamt-of possibilities open up, because then you have a special person with a special gift in your own environment. However, it has been tackled wrongly as a problem.
It's just a reality, just like life itself is. It always depends on how you deal with a thing and what you make of it. This is why it is so important to actually get to know and understand the topic, so that one can also see and make use of the many opportunities offered to a highly sensitive person.
Those who have made it, those who have dealt with and understood the subject of high sensitivity have taken a big step in the right direction. If you have now learned to use your gift, then it is time to acknowledge and accept yourself as the miracle that you are.
Anyone who, as an indirectly affected person, has managed to understand the subject and find the right way to deal with a highly sensitive friend, partner, child or colleague has a double chance of taking a big step. The first chance is for yourself. You can use the other person's gift. At the same time one can give thereby success experiences to the other humans. In addition, there is a sensitive approach and voilà, one has improved oneself and one's own life and rendered a great service to the highly gifted person who is so important to one. The latter can learn to respect himself, to accept himself, and simply to be proud of his own gift through good dealings and a sense of achievement.
This book combines three concerns at once. The first thing here is to impart the necessary knowledge on the subject of high sensitivity. This means that we look at what it actually stands for. In addition, we also provide an insight into the special features resulting from the high sensitivity for the person concerned and his environment.
Some highly sensitive people develop very special fears or their condition is confused with fears. Either way, it is important to understand the connection between fears and high sensitivity in order to keep them separate and learn how to deal with them properly.
Once the knowledge base has been laid, then it is a matter of the right handling. There are many facets in this area, so differentiation must be made here. This means that we look at how one, as a directly affected person, can deal with one's high sensitivity and make one's own life easier.
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