Anne-Marie Ellithorpe - Towards Friendship-Shaped Communities - A Practical Theology of Friendship

Anne-Marie Ellithorpe

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Hei koha iti nā te arohaki te tangata whenua me te tangata Tiritio Aotearoa Niu Tīreni

A small gift given in loveto the people of the land and the people of the Treatyin Aotearoa New Zealand

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2 Title page Towards Friendship-Shaped Communities A Practical Theology of Friendship Anne-Marie Ellithorpe

3 Copyright

4 Dedication

5 Illustrations

6 Abbreviations

7 Acknowledgments

8 Introduction

9 Part I The Current Reality 1 The Place of Friendship 2 Coexisting Friendship Worlds

10 Part II A Deep Remembering – Friendship, Community, Resistance 3 Friendship and First Testament Writings 4 Friendship and Second Testament Writings 5 Friendship in Classical and Christian Traditions Bridge: Shifts in Vision

11 Part III Theology, Friendship, and the Social Imagination 6 Mutuality: God, Creation and Community 7 Open Friendship, Becoming Kin, and the Human Vocation 8 Love, Spirit-Shaped Friendships, and Friendship-Shaped Communities

12 Part IV Practicing Friendship 9 Friendship and Community: Ideals and Implementation

13 Conclusion

14 Appendix: A Correlational Approach to Theological Reflection

15 Glossary

16 Index

17 End User License Agreement

1 AcknowledgmentsMap 1 Māui and Aotearoa New ZealandAotearoa New Zealand

2 Part II.1 A Cornflower in the WheatfieldI.2 Social Glue

3 Chapter 22.1 “The Signing of the Treaty of Waitangi,” Ōriwa Haddon2.2 Parihaka, Te Whiti, and Te Whiti addressing a crowd

4 Part IIII.1 Aspects of Community Life in a Joint Family Compound in Iron Age II Israel

5 Part IIIIII.1 Three Sets of Relationships.

6 Part IVIV.1 Communities of Practice and the Issue of Land.

7 Chapter 99.1 Lyall Te Ohu and his 10-month-old son TūmoanaAbbreviations General

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2 Title page Towards Friendship-Shaped Communities A Practical Theology of Friendship Anne-Marie Ellithorpe

3 Copyright

4 Dedication

5 Contents

6 Illustrations

7 Abbreviations

8 Acknowledgments

9 Begin Reading

10 Conclusion

11 Appendix: A Correlational Approach to Theological Reflection

12 Glossary

13 Index

14 End User License Agreement

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