and thinking
you could have me
when it was convenient
and leave when it was not
how can i write
if he took my hands
with him
neither of us is happy
but neither of us wants to leave
so we keep breaking one another
and calling it love
we began
with honesty
let us end
in it too
- us
your voice
alone
drives me
to tears
i don’t know why
i split myself open
for others knowing
sewing myself up
hurts this much
afterward
people go
but how
they left
always stays
love is not cruel
we are cruel
love is not a game
we have made a game
out of love
how can our love die
if it’s written
in these pages
even after the hurt
the loss
the pain
the breaking
your body is still
the only one
i want to be
undressed under
the night after you left
i woke up so broken
the only place to put the pieces
were the bags under my eyes
stay
i whispered
as you
shut the door behind you
i am confident i am over you. so much that some mornings i wake up with a smile on my face and my hands pressed together thanking the universe for pulling you out of me. thank god i cry. thank god you left. i would not be the empire i am today if you had stayed.
but then.
there are some nights i imagine what i might do if you showed up. how if you walked into the room this very second every awful thing you’ve ever done would be tossed out the closest window and all the love would rise up again. it would pour through my eyes as if it never really left in the first place. as if it’s been practicing how to stay silent so long only so it could be this loud on your arrival. can someone explain that. how even when the love leaves. it doesn’t leave. how even when i am so past you. i am so helplessly brought back to you.
he isn’t coming back
whispered my head
he has to
sobbed my heart
- wilting
i don’t want to be friends
i want all of you
- more
i am losing parts of you like i lose eyelashes
unknowingly and everywhere
you cannot leave
and have me too
i cannot exist in
two places at once
- when you ask if we can still be friends
i am water
soft enough
to offer life
tough enough
to drown it away
what i miss most is how you loved me. but what i didn’t know was how you loved me had so much to do with the person i was. it was a reflection of everything i gave to you. coming back to me. how did i not see that. how. did i sit here soaking in the idea that no one else would love me that way. when it was i that taught you. when it was i that showed you how to fill. the way i needed to be filled. how cruel i was to myself. giving you credit for my warmth simply because you had felt it. thinking it was you who gave me strength. wit. beauty. simply because you recognized it. as if i was already not these things before i met you. as if i did not remain all these once you left.
you leave
but you don’t stay gone
why do you do that
why do you
abandon the thing you want to keep
why do you linger
in a place you do not want to stay
why do you think it’s okay to do both
go and return all at once
i will tell you about selfish people. even when they know they will hurt you they walk into your life to taste you because you are the type of being they don’t want to miss out on. you are too much shine to not be felt. so when they have gotten a good look at everything you have to offer. when they have taken your skin your hair your secrets with them. when they realize how real this is. how much of a storm you are and it hits them.
that is when the cowardice sets in. that is when the person you thought they were is replaced by the sad reality of what they are. that is when they lose every fighting bone in their body and leave after saying you will find better than me.
you will stand there naked with half of them still hidden somewhere inside you and sob. asking them why they did it. why they forced you to love them when they had no intention of loving you back and they’ll say something along the lines of i just had to try. i had to give it a chance. it was you after all.
but that isn’t romantic. it isn’t sweet. the idea that they were so engulfed by your existence they had to risk breaking it for the sake of knowing they weren’t the one missing out. your existence meant that little next to their curiosity of you.
that is the thing about selfish people. they gamble entire beings. entire souls to please their own. one second they are holding you like the world in their lap and the next they have belittled you to a mere picture. a moment. something of the past. one second. they swallow you up and whisper they want to spend the rest of their life with you. but the moment they sense fear. they are already halfway out the door. without having the nerve to let you go with grace. as if the human heart means that little to them.
and after all this. after all of the taking. the nerve. isn’t it sad and funny how people have more guts these days to undress you with their fingers than they do to pick up the phone and call. apologize. for the loss. and this is how you lose her.
- selfish
to do list (after the breakup):
1. take refuge in your bed.
2. cry. till the tears stop (this will take a few days).
3. don’t listen to slow songs.
4. delete their number from your phone even though it is memorized on your fingertips.
5. don’t look at old photos.
6. find the closest ice cream shop and treat yourself to two scoops of mint chocolate chip. the mint will calm your heart. you deserve the chocolate.
7. buy new bed sheets.
8. collect all the gifts, t-shirts, and everything with their smell on it and drop it off at a donation center.
9. plan a trip.
10. perfect the art of smiling and nodding when someone brings their name up in conversation.
11. start a new project.
12. whatever you do. do not call.
13. do not beg for what does not want to stay.
14. stop crying at some point.
15. allow yourself to feel foolish for believing you could’ve built the rest of your life in someone else’s stomach.
16. breathe.
the way they
leave
tells you
everything
perhaps
i don’t deserve
nice things
cause i am paying
for sins i don’t
remember
the thing about writing is
i can’t tell if it’s healing
or destroying me
do not bother holding on to
that thing that does not want you
- you cannot make it stay
you must enter a relationship
with yourself
before anyone else
accept that you deserve more
than painful love
life is moving
the healthiest thing
for your heart is
to move with it
it is a part of the
human experience to feel pain
do not be afraid
open yourself to it
- evolving
loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself
you are in the habit
of co-depending
on people to
make up for what
you think you lack
who tricked you
into believing
another person
was meant to complete you
when the most they can do is complement
do not look for healing
at the feet of those
who broke you
if you were born with
the weakness to fall
you were born with
the strength to rise
perhaps the saddest of all
are those who live waiting
for someone they’re not
sure exists
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