Lee Jenkins - The Female Orgasm Black Book

Once we cum, we’re finally able to STOP thinking about sex and get back to the more mundane things in life. And though it may help you get your goals accomplished, she’ll more than likely be left less than pleased.

Rewards : The ego boost of making your lover cum, added to the satisfaction of your own orgasm can be fantastic fuel to get out there and “Get ‘er done!” You’ll have a little extra bounce to your step and your mood will be greatly improved, but maybe not hers…

Consequences : Remember how I said that the last option, falling asleep, was the second worst option? Well, as far as your lover is concerned, this one is THE worst option.

Why? Because to some women, hopping right up, getting dressing and running off can make them feel less like lovers and more like a mere “booty call.” Sure, if both of you already know that you’ve got plans for the day, or you’re running late for an appointment, you can let it slide. But, otherwise, for your sake, choose one of the following two options.

Want your lover to stay madly and completely in love with you?

Then don’t scrimp when it comes to what you do AFTER sex! To a woman, what you do after sex really shows her what you’re all about. The little things give her the small indications about what kind of man you are (and what she thinks you think about her).

Take the time for a little “after play” and enjoy your after-glow. You’d be amazed what an extra fifteen minutes can accomplish, so don’t take this opportunity for granted. So, get ready to snuggle up, share a few kisses and spend a little time talking, smiling and touching together.

This allows you to stay “connected” and strength the emotional bonds that lead to a healthy relationship — sexual, emotional and otherwise.

Tapping into this, and giving her the attention and respect she deserves means that you’ll have the key to making her want (and want to give) more sex the next time around.

Simply cuddling, talking, and “being” with her physically and emotionally after love making… combined with the fact that she thinks you’re responsible for her orgasms is like making little deposits in the “Desire” account.

The better she feels about her sexual experience with you this time, will create more desire to be with you next time.

So remember that psychologically during this stage, you’ll want to reinforce the positive sexual experience she just had, so when the cycle loops back into “Desire”, she’ll be thinking of you more, be more attracted to you, and want sex more often.

Not a bad deal for an extra 15 minutes of time, don’t you think? ☺

In this section, I’ll introduce you to some of the routines that I regularly use. I’ve divided them up into “Beginner”, “Intermediate” and “Advance”.

You’ll find that the general outlines of all the routines are the same. They follow the different phases (Seduction, Sensation, Surrender and Reflection) and stages (Desire, Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm, and Resolution) of the blueprint. In other words, the overall “strategy” to female orgasms is the same, while the “tactics” can vary.

You’ll also notice that within each section of the beginner, intermediate and advance routines, many of the “what to do’s” are the same. For example, the routines all have the same massaging sequence. I purposely made this the same, because they work in achieving the goals of each section.

However, this doesn’t mean that you always have use exactly what’s listed. As long as you accomplish the overall goal for each section, you should be fine. For example, you want to make sure she’s physically relaxed before any heavy sexual contact. I’ve outlined a basic massage sequence, but you use other massaging techniques in place of what I’ve written down. As long as she’s physically relaxed, you’re good to go.

The main things that are different in the beginner, intermediate and advance routines are the sexual techniques you’ll use.

You can find all the techniques in the Oral Sex Secrets, Advance Fingering Techniques, and Best Sex Positions special reports.

Lastly, I want you to use these routines as a model to creating your own custom routines. You can “plug-and-play” different techniques and different positions into each section, creating a different experience for yourself and your partner every time you make love. But just make sure that you stick to the overall “strategy”, and only change around the techniques.

It’s a bit like making up an exercise routine, where you’ll have a 1) warm up, 2) main workout, and 3) cool down. You can always warm up on an exercise bike to get the heart rate up and the blood flowing through your muscles and you can cool down by taking a brisk walk. But the main workout can always be different, composed of different exercises, weight, reps, and sets. What you do IN your workout is different, but you’ll always have the warm up, main workout, and cool down “strategy”.

Now, let’s get into the routines!

Eye contact

Atmosphere

□ Lighting

□ Music

□ Scents

Stage I: Excitement

Step I: Massage

A. Shower/Bath

A1. Relaxation Massage

□ Sitting Upright:

• Scalp

• Ear lobes

□ On Her Stomach

• Neck and shoulders

• Back

• Ass Tease

• Foot

• Back of the legs

• Buttocks

□ On her back

• Top of the chest

• Brest

• Belly

• Glide your hands down, and back up so your hands rest on either side of her labia

A2. Erotic Massage

Step II: Labial Massage

□ Massage labia

□ Massage mons pubis

Stage II: Plateau and Orgasm

B. Orgasm 1: Oral

First Contact

□ Kisses around her labia

□ Long lick

Establishing Rhythm

□ Lick-Rest Cycle

□ 5 Half-way Licks, 1 Full Lick Cycle

□ Random Half-way and Full Licks

□ Secret Twitch

C. Orgasm 2: G-spot Fingering

□ In-Out Stroke

□ Circles

□ Come Hither

□ Tapping

D. Orgasm 3: Blended Orgasm

□ Lick-Rest Cycle

□ Secret Twitch to find “hot spot” with your tongue

□ In-Out Stroke (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)

□ Circles (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)

□ Come Hither (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)

□ Tapping (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)

E. (Her turn to please you, and/or Sex)

□ Spend minimum of 15 minutes cuddling, talking, and “being” with her (so that it reinforces the positive sexual experience she just had, increasing her desire for you and sex).

Eye contact

Atmosphere

□ Lighting

□ Music

□ Scents

Stage I: Excitement

Step I: Massage

A. Shower/Bath

A1. Relaxation Massage

□ Sitting Upright

• Scalp

• Ear lobes

□ On Her Stomach

• Neck and shoulders

• Back

• Ass Tease

• Foot