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It is not easy to be in any great assembly without thinking that the chance which brings so many people together will also make us meet our friends.
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A man may live never so retired a life but he becomes a debtor or a creditor before he is aware of it.
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If anyone meets us who owes us a debt of gratitude, it immediately crosses our mind. How often can we meet some one to whom we owe gratitude, without thinking of it!
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To communicate oneself is Nature; to receive a communication as it is given is Culture.
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No one would speak much in society if he were aware how often we misunderstand others.
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It is only because we have not understood a thing that we cannot repeat it without alteration.
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To make a long speech in the presence of others without flattering your audience, is to rouse dislike.
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Every word that we utter rouses its contrary.
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Contradiction and flattery make, both of them, bad conversation.
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The pleasantest society is that in which there exists a genial deference amongst the members one towards another.
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By nothing do men show their character more than by the things they laugh at.
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The ridiculous springs from a moral contrast innocently presented to the senses.
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The sensual man often laughs when there is nothing to laugh at. Whatever it is that moves him, he shows that he is pleased with himself.
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An intelligent man finds almost everything ridiculous, a wise man hardly anything.
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A man well on in years was reproved for still troubling himself about young women. 'It is the only means,' he replied, 'of regaining one's youth; and that is something every one wishes to do.'
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A man does not mind being blamed for his faults, and being punished for them, and he patiently suffers much for the sake of them; but he becomes impatient if he is required to give them up.
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Certain faults are necessary to the individual if he is to exist. We should not like old friends to give up certain peculiarities.
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It is said of a man that he will soon die, when he acts in any way unlike himself.
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What kind of faults in ourselves should we retain, nay, even cultivate? Those which rather flatter other people than offend them.
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The passions are good or bad qualities, only intensified.
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Our passions are, in truth, like the phoenix. When the old one burns away, the new one rises out of its ashes at once.
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Great passions are hopeless diseases. That which could cure them is the first thing to make them really dangerous.
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Passion is enhanced and tempered by avowal. In nothing, perhaps, is the middle course more desirable than in confidence and reticence towards those we love.
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To sit in judgment on the departed is never likely to be equitable. We all suffer from life; who except God can call us to account? Let not their faults and sufferings, but what they have accomplished and done, occupy the survivors.
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It is failings that show human nature, and merits that distinguish the individual; faults and misfortunes we all have in common; virtues belong to each one separately.
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The secret places in the way of life may not and cannot be revealed: there are rocks of offence on which every traveller must stumble. But the poet points to where they are.
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It would not be worth while to see seventy years if all the wisdom of this world were foolishness with God.
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The true is Godlike: we do not see it itself; we must guess at it through its manifestations.
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The real scholar learns how to evolve the unknown from the known, and draws near the master.
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In the smithy the iron is softened by blowing up the fire, and taking the dross from the bar. As soon as it is purified, it is beaten and pressed, and becomes firm again by the addition of fresh water. The same thing happens to a man at the hands of his teacher.
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What belongs to a man, he cannot get rid of, even though he throws it away.
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Of true religions there are only two: one of them recognises and worships the Holy that without form or shape dwells in and around us; and the other recognises and worships it in its fairest form. Everything that lies between these two is idolatry.
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It is undeniable that in the Reformation the human mind tried to free itself; and the renaissance of Greek and Roman antiquity brought about the wish and longing for a freer, more seemly, and elegant life. The movement was favoured in no small degree by the fact that men's hearts aimed at returning to a certain simple state of nature, while the imagination sought to concentrate itself.
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The Saints were all at once driven from heaven; and senses, thought, and heart were turned from a divine mother with a tender child, to the grown man doing good and suffering evil, who was later transfigured into a being half–divine in its nature, and then recognised and honoured as God himself. He stood against a background where the Creator had opened out the universe; a spiritual influence went out from him; his sufferings were adopted as an example, and his transfiguration was the pledge of everlastingness.
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As a coal is revived by incense, so prayer revives the hopes of the heart.
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From a strict point of view we must have a reformation of ourselves every day, and protest against others, even though it be in no religious sense.
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It should be our earnest endeavour to use words coinciding as closely as possible with what we feel, see, think, experience, imagine, and reason. It is an endeavour which we cannot evade, and which is daily to be renewed.
Let every man examine himself, and he will find this a much harder task than he might suppose; for, unhappily, a man usually takes words as mere make–shifts; his knowledge and his thought are in most cases better than his method of expression.
False, irrelevant, and futile ideas may arise in ourselves and others, or find their way into us from without. Let us persist in the effort to remove them as far as we can, by plain and honest purpose.
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As we grow older, the ordeals grow greater.
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Where I cannot be moral, my power is gone.
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A man is not deceived by others, he deceives himself.
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Laws are all made by old people and by men. Youths and women want the exceptions, old people the rules.
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It is not the intelligent man who rules, but intelligence; not the wise man, but wisdom.
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To praise a man is to put oneself on his level.
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It is not enough to know, we must also apply; it is not enough to will, we must also do.
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Chinese, Indian, and Egyptian antiquities are never more than curiosities; it is well to make acquaintance with them; but in point of moral and æsthetic culture they can help us little.
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The German runs no greater danger than to advance with and by the example of his neighbours. There is perhaps no nation that is fitter for the process of self–development; so that it has proved of the greatest advantage to Germany to have obtained the notice of the world so late.
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Even men of insight do not see that they try to explain things which lie at the foundation of our experience, and in which we must simply acquiesce.
Yet still the attempt may have its advantage, as otherwise we should break off our researches too soon.
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From this time forward, if a man does not apply himself to some art or handiwork, he will be in a bad way. In the rapid changes of the world, knowledge is no longer a furtherance; by the time a man has taken note of everything, he has lost himself.
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