Chris Bohjalian - Secrets of Eden

Things were so peaceful that I allowed a boy who was interested in me to pick me up one Saturday night and hang around for a couple of hours before we went to a party in the village. He was a senior. He drove. Dad would never have allowed me to date a senior. He would never have allowed me to even go to a party with him. But Alan was fine, totally harmless. He was already into college by then, and we were just having a good time-which, looking back, is exactly why Dad would never have let me near him and why it wouldn’t have crossed my mind to invite Alan to within a hundred yards of our house if Dad had been there.

And Mom and I could talk about Alan. We could talk about Brendan, another boy who I liked a bit, although we only hung around together as friends. (The summer and fall after Mom and Dad died, Brendan and I got a little closer, but I think that was mostly because he had spectacular dope. We didn’t hook up or anything.)

It’s interesting, but the two males Mom and I didn’t talk about very much when Dad was gone were Dad and Stephen. One time I asked her why Dad often seemed so angry, and she said he came from an angry family. I knew what she meant: I know my grandfather. I know my uncles-all those brothers. She also said he was under a lot of pressure at work and sometimes he drank too much, and those were the big reasons why they had problems. But I could tell she was being evasive. She was suffering and didn’t really get it herself.

I didn’t bring up my fantasy that she might divorce Dad, but for a while in February and March there really was this out-of-sight, out-of-mind thing going on. Dad knew how pissed I was at him, and so for a while he kept his distance. But at the end of February, I got a text from him on my cell. It was a joke about something-something he’d seen on TV that he thought would make me smile. And there was something so pathetic about my dad alone at night at the lake watching crap TV that I texted back. And the next week he sent me an e-mail. Short, but with a link to a video on YouTube he thought I’d get a charge out of. Then, the week after that, he sent me a long e-mail, the first of many, and it was all about how sorry he was for being such a crummy husband, because it meant that he had always been a crummy father. But he said he was resolved to be a better person, and he said he was going to look into counseling. He always went on and on about how much he loved Mom and how much he loved me. I wasn’t totally sure what to make of the e-mails and whether I should show them to Mom. I thought I might even just delete them. Mom and I had been living a day-to-day life without Dad, and it wasn’t hard to imagine him gone forever. To want him gone forever. Not necessarily from my life, because that wasn’t going to happen. Already he was insisting we have lunch every week or two in Manchester, where he had his stores and his restaurant. (We would do that beginning the end of March, and it would continue until he came home in May.) But out of the house forever-that sort of gone. And I feared if I showed the e-mails to Mom, it might screw things up with whatever she had going with Stephen.

In the end Dad made the decision for me about whether to show Mom his e-mails. It seems that he had been e-mailing her, too. Or, maybe, calling her. I don’t remember. I just remember that one night in April when we were having dinner, Mom told me that she heard Dad had been sending me some very sweet e-mails and she was wondering if she could read a few of them. I was pretty cornered: I really couldn’t say no. And so she read a couple before we had even cleared the table and loaded the dishwasher, and sometimes I wonder if this was the beginning of the end of her relationship with Stephen.

Looking back, I really wish I had just deleted them.

IF MY MOM had been into Facebook or MySpace, here’s a video she would have uploaded for sure: They’re at a wedding reception at some beautiful inn when we still lived in Bennington, and I was about three years old. It’s New Year’s Eve. I’m not in the video, because it’s a pretty rockin’ reception and I was home with a baby-sitter. But I love the dress my mom is wearing. It was a black-and-white zebra print without any sleeves. My mom wore a cardigan sweater over it, more likely because my dad thought it showed too much shoulder than because it was cold in the ballroom. Supposedly when Mom kissed me good night before leaving for the wedding, she said, “See you next year,” and I melted down like a Fudgesicle in July. We’re talking near panic attack, the way Mom would tell the story. The problem was that I didn’t totally get New Year’s Eve yet. Once Mom explained it to me, I chilled, but I gather it was pretty gnarly there for a couple of minutes. Anyway, they’re at this inn that has pushed all the tables in this huge room against the walls so people can dance, and there are still all these tiny white Christmas lights along the ceiling and the windowsills and over the top of the glass doors. There’s a good crowd, and everybody’s dancing-even the bartenders, a guy and this girl in bow ties behind this long table with rows and rows of bottles and glasses. The two of them look like they’re having as much fun as the people on the dance floor. Most of the crowd seems to be in their twenties and thirties, but there are grandparents and aunts and uncles, I guess, sitting at some of those tables. Whoever is holding the video camera must have known it belongs to Mom and Dad, because they’re focusing more on the two of them than on anyone else in the room. And they are really moving. They look more than a little dorky, but I guess it’s sweet that they’re so into the party and so into each other. Suddenly the DJ, wherever he is, says he is going to play something slow now for all the lovers in the room. My mom falls against my dad, and the camera catches them looking into each other’s eyes like they invented romance. Her fingers are on the back of his neck, and when they finally break eye contact, her head falls forward into his chest, she closes her eyes, and she has this smile on her face that looks like she is having the most peaceful and beautiful dream of her life. We’re talking movie moment.

Anyway, it would have been a classic on Facebook. And it reminded me that once, a long time ago, my parents’ marriage hadn’t been the natural disaster that it would soon become and will look like forever to most of the world.

OBVIOUSLY I THINK a lot about what must have been going on at my house that Sunday night while Tina and I were in Albany at the Fray concert. Everyone around me seemed to be concocting whole scenes that August and September, and the only thing they all shared was this: I was lucky as hell that the band was playing a Sunday-night gig, because that’s the only reason I’m alive today. The general consensus is that if I’d been home, I would have been killed. We’ll never know, but I also think it’s possible if I had been there, all three of us would have been alive the next morning. Maybe my mom would have kept to herself whatever it was she said that put my dad over the edge. Maybe Mom and I would have gotten the heck out of there before my dad blew up like a furnace. And maybe, pure and simple, Dad would have been incapable of killing Mom if I’d been in the house.

But everyone who talked to me had a different idea about how the fight might have unfolded, and they were all basing it on their memories of their own parents’ fights-or, I guess, on their own fights with their own spouse or partner or whatever. That’s the thing. We all have recollections of fighting with someone we’re supposed to love, and I figured out at a really young age that what goes on when the doors are closed is anyone’s guess. Still, I have tried to piece together that Sunday night from what I know of their fights (which is, unfortunately, a lot), what Ginny told me, and what the investigators seemed to have figured out in the weeks that followed. Stephen and I talked about it a couple of times before it became clear to me that he was the last person in the world I should have been talking to.