Hugo Richard Vogel - HOW TO BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP.

It is true that the easiest way to find a suitable partner is in a place and in an activity you like. But people come together in any place.

You will also find the easiest way to find a partner in a place where people speak your language and

Know your cultural habits. But apart from these general restrictions your partner finding is not dependent on what you do and who you are. Your success in finding a partner depends more on how quickly you learn how to do things in a certain way.

If you are now living in an environment where others have already been able to find their soul mate while you are still alone, it is because you are not doing things in the same way as they do the other people.

No one is prevented from finding a suitable life partner because there are not enough people who are also looking for a life partner. It is true that someone who has been a close friend for a long time has an easier relationship with someone than someone who has no close relationship with someone. But someone who already has a close friendship with a loved one has already found a life partner and no longer needs to think about how to find a partner.

No matter how lonely you may be, when you start doing things in a certain way you start to build a relationship and get a friendship. To get a friendship is part of the success that follows without exception the doing of things in a certain way.

You may be the loneliest person on the continent and you may not have a single person near you. You may not have acquaintances or friendships, but when you start doing things in a certain way you must unfailingly begin to find a life partnership. Same causes must lead to same results. If there is no one where you are, then you can go where someone is. The important thing is that in the place where you are right now you start doing things in the certain way that causes success.

No one has to stay alone because an opportunity was taken away from him, because other people were faster and now live in fixed relationships. You may not be able to build a relationship with a certain person, but other possibilities are open to you.

Maybe it would be hard for you to become the soul partner of a certain movie actor, pop singer or soccer player. But there are numerous places and events where you can meet someone who suits you. Just do what you like. Then you are as natural in the place where there are people who also like it. For example, if you like to travel, then join a travel group. If you like dancing, take a dance class. If you like jogging

go, then go to the running group. If you are particularly interested in anything, then take the course at the adult education centre where people who are interested in this matter go. If you like cooking, then register for a cooking course. The possibilities are endless. Just do what you like and feel good about it.

It is absolutely true that if you don't know anything about the film business, but work as a worker on an assembly line, you have few chances to marry a certain film actor or actress.

But it's also true. That if you start acting in a certain way it will soon be possible for you to get to know other people.

You can now say that it is completely impossible for you to build a serious relationship, and that you have already been shipwrecked in several attempts in the past. But right now I am about to prove to you that it is possible to get a loving and understanding partner if you are willing to proceed in the certain way

At different times, the possibilities for people to get to know each other and communicate with each other change. At present, modern media with Internet and smartphone offer completely new possibilities to get to know a partner.

There is an abundance of opportunities for a person to take advantage of these new ways of communicating via email and SMS.

The countless people who are lonely in our society are not deprived of opportunities. As a group, they are where they are because they don't do things in a certain way. If they were organized as a group, the problem of isolation would be quickly solved. It would be possible to find together organized into partnerships. No one could stop this process of reorganisation of society. This group of people could organise the whole thing from their own ranks. In a few years, countless new friendships and strong partnerships could develop within this organization.

The group of the lonely could become the group of those who have the most stable relationships whenever they begin to do things in a particular way. The laws of nature are the same for them as for everyone else.

You have to learn to do things in the certain way that makes a lasting relationship possible. The individual is not held where he is by circumstances. Not the circumstances but the way we do things decides whether we get a life partner. This book shows how.

No one is held in solitude because there would be a lack of opportunities to get to know someone.

Every day offers new opportunities to get to know someone. There are billions of people on this planet.

No human being is therefore alone, because by nature there are too few potential life partners on this planet to choose from.

When individuals are lonely it is because they do not follow the certain way to do things.

It is the natural drive of life to strive for more life. It is the nature of intelligence to expand. It is the nature of consciousness to expand its limits and find fuller expression. Man needs a life partner to create more life. Nature has created human reproduction as an AND account, not as an OR account. It takes the signature of two people under the contract of life for the emergence of new life. The emergence of new life is the greatest miracle of this world. To be allowed to experience this miracle, man needs a partner.

To experience this miracle you don't need sex between heterosexual people. Reproduction by the cup method between a homosexually predisposed man and a heterosexually predisposed woman works just as well by artificial insemination. Nature does not need sex to create new life.

Nature is created to promote life. Their motive is the increase of life. For this purpose, everything that could possibly support life is generously provided. There can be no shortage. That would be a contradiction in terms. There can be no lack of opportunities to form a loving partnership.

You're not staying alone because there's a shortage of potential life partners. That's a fact. It is rather the case that nature itself reacts to the needs of people who think and act in a certain way.

I will show that in the following in this book.

The idea of a loving person is the only power that can create a loving person who suits you. In the beginning there is always the idea. The idea of form creates form in nature. The idea of movement creates movement in nature. Every form, every process that you see in nature is the visible expression of an idea that preceded the process.

The thought of a form leads to the development of the form. The thought of a movement leads to this movement taking place. The thought of a process causes this process to take place. The thought of a chemical reaction ensures that this chemical reaction takes place. That's the way all things were made. We live in a world that has arisen from certain ideas.

That is the law of nature itself.

The thought of a moving universe led to the formation of this moving universe. The thought of a law of gravity has made this law of gravity valid in nature. Maintaining the idea of a sun and planets moving around it caused the formation of these forms and movements.

The idea of a slowly growing tree leads to the tree growing up to its full size. It can take centuries for a sequoia to reach its full size. The continuing idea of a growing sequoia leads to the growth of the tree. In this process, the laws of nature that already existed before are observed. The idea of a sequoia does not lead to this tree suddenly appearing out of nowhere, but it grows slowly out of a seed according to the previously defined laws of growth and moves upwards from the earth.