Richard Bandler - Reframing. Neuro–Linguistic Programming™ and the Transformation of Meaning

Man: In her dreams you mean?

Yes, and there's some possibility that it could spill over into her waking behavior, too. My guess is that if her husband got involved with another woman again, that would break down all the barriers that we set up to sort her behavior. You can always use that kind of dissociation to sort someone's behavior, but you should realize the limitations of not achieving full integration.

You need to be able to select and contextualize behavior, so that you can respond differently in different situations. Overcontextualization results in extreme dissociation, and severely limited and inflexible behavior. Extreme dissociation can work adequately in limited and relatively stable environments, but it quickly becomes maladaptive and ineffective in the face of changing conditions.

The ideal situation is to have full integration, so that any behavior can be available in any context. Our goal for you and your clients is to be able to respond to changing conditions in generative and evolutionary ways. In order to do this, it is useful to integrate dissociations fully, so that you have all your resources available to you anytime and anywhere.

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Bibliography

Bandler, Richard; and Grinder, John. Frogs into Princes. Real People

Press, 1979 (cloth $9.00, paper $5.50). Bandler, Richard; and Grinder, John. The Structure of Magic I.

Science and Behavior Books, 1975 ($8.95). Bandler, Richard; and Grinder, John. Patterns of the Hypnotic

Techniques of Milton H. Erickson, M.D. I. Meta Publications,

1975 (paper, $6.95). Bandler, Richard; Grinder, John; and Satir, Virginia. Changing with

Families. Science and Behavior Books, 1976 ($9.95). Cameron–Bandler, Leslie. They Lived Happily Ever After: A Book

About Achieving Happy Endings In Coupling. Meta Publications,

1978 ($8.95).

Dilts, Robert B.; Grinder, John; Bandler, Richard; DeLozier, Judith;

and Cameron–Bandler, Leslie. Neuro–Linguistic Programming I.

Meta Publications, 1979 ($24.00). Farrelly, Frank; and Brandsma, Jeff. Provocative Therapy. Meta

Publications, 1978 ($9.95). Gordon, David. Therapeutic Metaphors: Helping Others Through

the Looking Glass. Meta Publications, 1978 ($9.95). Grinder, John; and Bandler, Richard. Trance–formations: Neuro–Linguistic Programming and the Structure of Hypnosis. 1981

(cloth $9.00, paper $5.50). Grinder, John; and Bandler, Richard. The Structure of Magic II.

Science and Behavior Books, 1976 ($8.95). Grinder, John; and Bandler, Richard. Reframing: Neuro–Linguistic

Programming and the Transformation of Meaning. 1982 (cloth

$9.00, paper $5.50). Grinder, John; DeLozier, Judith; and Bandler, Richard. Patterns of

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Neuro–Linguistic Programming. Meta Publications, 1979 ($12.00).

Trance–formations and Reframing can be ordered directly from: Real People Press, Box F, Moab, UT 84532.

All the other books above can be ordered directly from: Meta Publications Inc., P.O. Box 565, Cupertino, CA 95014.