Cathy Winks and Anne Semans, The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 1997), 163.
1. For more information on the Reality™ Female Condom, see the Northwest AIDS Foundation brochure reprinted on the Society for Human Sexuality Web site (see Resources for Web address).
2. Mcllvenna, Complete Guide to Safer Sex , 82
3. Mcllvenna, Complete Guide to Safer Sex , 211
Dorian Key, “ Every Boy ” in Best Lesbian Erotica 1998 edited by Tristan Taormino (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 1998).
Anne Rice, “ Beauty: The Rites of Purification ,” from Beauty’s Release by Anne Rice, writing as A. N. Roquelaure (New York: Plume, 1985), 53-54.
1. For more information on enemas, I recommend you read Bert Herrman, Trust: The Hand Book (A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing) (San Francisco: Alamo Square Press, 1991).
Betty Dodson, Sex for One : The Joy of Selfloving (New York: Three Rivers Press), 157, 143. Author and sex educator Betty Dodson is considered by many to be the ” mother of masturbation .”
1. Hartley, Guide to Anal Sex .
Linda Jaivin, Eat Me (New York: Broadway Books/Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, 1997), 220.
1. Herrman, Trust, 43.
Magenta Michaels, “ Taking Him on a Sunday Afternoon ” in Herotica 2: A Collection of Women’s Erotic Fiction edited by Susie Bright and Joani Blank (San Francisco: Down There Press, 1991), 19.
2. Hartley, Guide to Anal Sex .
3. Sex educator Robert Morgan.
Rose White and Eric Albert, “ She Gets Her Ass Fucked Good” in Best American Erotica 1997 edited by Susie Bright (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1997), 82.
AnaIs Nin, “ Mandra ” in Little Birds (New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich Inc., 1979), 131.
1. Herrman, Trust, 17.
2. Herrman, Trust, 22-23.
3. Herrman, Trust, 27.
4. Sex educator Robert Morgan. 5.
Pat Califia, “ The Calyx of Isis ” in Macho Sluts (Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 1988), 132, 135.
5. Herrman, Trust, 61.
Linda Jaivin, Eat Me (New York: Broadway Books/Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, 1997), 164.
Pauline Reage, Story of O , translated by Sabine d’Estree (New York: Grove Press, 1965), 83.
1. Read more about S/M in Leatherfolk , edited by Mark Thompson (Boston: Alyson, 1991); Coming to Power , edited by SAMOIS (Boston: Alyson, 1982); The Second Coming, edited by Pat Califia and Robin Sweeney (Los Angeles: Alyson, 1996); Different Loving by Gloria Brame (Random House, 1993); Sensuous Magic by Pat Califia (New York: Masquerade, 1996); SM 101 by Jay Wiseman (San Francisco: Greenery Press, 1992).
Carol Queen, “ Ariel ” in The Leatherdaddy and the Femme (San Francisco: Cleis Press, 1998).
1. For more information on STDs and anal sex, I recommend Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin; The American Medical Women’s Association Guide to Sexuality, edited by Roselyn Payne Epps and Susan Cobb Stewart; and Your Sexual Health by Dr. Jenny McClosky (San Francisco: Halo Books, 1993).
2. Morin, Anal Pleasure, 210.
3. Epps and Stewart, Guide to Sexuality , 140.
4. Epps and Stewart, Guide to Sexuality, 138-9.
5. McCloskey, Your Sexual Health, 164.
6. McCloskey, Your Sexual Health.
7. Epps and Stewart, Guide to Sexuality , 134.
8. Epps and Stewart, Guide to Sexuality, 152.