Maggie Gee - The White Family

‘What do you mean, he’s gone abroad? What do you mean, he doesn’t know?’

I didn’t speak; didn’t know where to begin; and besides, his voice had begun to rise, and the lump was rising in my throat.

But another part of myself was calm. I was different now. I was a pregnant woman. That made me a woman, for the first time.

‘What is this man? Some foreigner? Answer your father. What’s his name?’

‘He isn’t foreign.’

‘What’s his name?’

‘None of your business.’ It just came out, and I knew as I said it that he would kill me, and then I thought about the baby, and I saw him coming across the room, red in the face, his arm lifted –

‘Don’t you hit me.’ I backed away. ‘His name is Ivo.’

And then he hit me. ‘Ibo! What kind of bloody name is that? He’s a bloody darkie, isn’t he? Isn’t he ?’ He hit me on the shoulder and upper arm, the usual places he would hit me, but I was afraid he would hurt the baby, I couldn’t stand there and take my medicine.

So I went on backwards, and he kept on coming, head down, fists up, as if he had to hit me but couldn’t bear to look at me. I suddenly thought, no more of this. I shan’t have any more of this. And I stepped aside, so he bumped into the mantelpiece, and waited for him to come round again, and hit him as hard as I could in the face, full in the face, across his huge red nose, and I winced as I did it, I winced for his pain, but I screamed from a place that knew how to scream, ‘I’ll kill you if you hit me again. I’ll bloody kill you. Are you listening? The child isn’t coloured . Not that it matters.’

And then my mother came in from the kitchen and my father said in a muffled voice, ‘I’m bleeding. Do something, May. I’m bleeding. I think Shirley has broken my nose.’

Then Dirk ran in, eyes wild, frightened. He had a cricket bat in his hand; he’d been out in the yard, batting at the wall. He saw Dad bleeding and began to cry. ‘Dad, you’re bleeding. What happened? What’s happening?’ I remember the blood splashing red on Dad’s shirt and a few drops going on Dirk’s new jeans, I was sorry the blood went on Dirk’s new jeans –

And Dad said, ‘I bumped into the mantelpiece. Bent down to pick something up, judged it wrong. Mummy is bringing me some sticking plaster. Hurry up May, for goodness sake.’ And he didn’t look in my direction. I think I knew it was over then, and he wouldn’t dare to hit me again.

It was just a habit, really, like smoking. People need help with breaking them. She helped me, didn’t she, my vanished daughter?

By now she must be eighteen years old. If nothing bad has happened to her …

She was eighteen on the twelfth of December. I thought of nothing else all day. I tried to keep my thoughts happy and hopeful. I have something to be proud of, after all. I kept her alive. I didn’t kill her. I hope she’s happy and beautiful. I hope her family is happier than mine — and yet my family will always be hers.

I told myself adoption was the best thing to do. The doctors were helpful; almost too helpful. So many couples waiting, they assured me, for babies like yours (I suppose they meant white ones), you’ll make some childless couple very happy, so the whole thing should have been perfectly happy.

I did what I was told. I had a Caesarean because she was presenting upside down. I was full of drugs, but I held her, briefly, and tried not to see that she looked like me, she looked like me , not at all like Ivo. She looked like me; weeping, weeping, screaming as if she was being abandoned.

I did as they told me and took some pills that made me feel sick but suppressed the milk. My breasts hurt horribly. They sang and cried. They throbbed and yearned and I ignored the pain, and when it subsided, when my breasts lay down, I began to give up, I began to accept it, I gave her to the nurse to bottle-feed. ‘I can’t do it. She’s not really mine.’

The rest disappears into a mist of terror. They took her away and I went back to college and two weeks later had a total breakdown. I left Winthrop College, never to return. Yet I’d given her up to protect my studies. If I had been older, richer, more confident, I would have done everything to get her back, because I knew without doubt that I wanted her back, that without her my life could never be complete.

Without her my life can never be complete. Without my daughter; without children.

I did talk to my doctor. More than once. He sympathized briefly but pointed out it would be selfish to uproot her. ‘I hear it’s a completely successful adoption. They’re a family now. It would break their hearts. And besides … what do you have to offer?’

Nothing, except my own broken heart. And a face like hers. I shall always wonder –

If I saw her now, would I recognize her? Would she look like me, as I did then? She’s almost as old as I was when I had her.

I hid it inside me, all that pain. I knew my mother couldn’t bear to listen. Somewhere, under those veils of rain. Somewhere, maybe in one of those windows, the hundreds of windows I see from here. Maybe it’s her I go shopping for, her I look for in all those faces.

May closed her eyes and prayed very hard, her whole being cringing away from pain. Save me God oh save me God . Waiting for his shoe to crush her soft stomach, waiting for bone to smash into her face, waiting for her money to be torn away. He was shouting something, but she was deaf. He crouched down over her, almost on top of her, and his big black hands closed over her shoulders, perhaps he was going to strangle her … She opened her eyes and stared into his, big yellow eyes, cat-like, inhuman, veined with red, she couldn’t breathe — ‘Don’t touch me,’ she gasped, but hardly any sound came. ‘Help,’ and then louder, ‘Help! Help!’

Curiously little was going on.

No pain came, except the ache in her ankle. He smelled of unfamiliar aftershave, surprisingly sweet, almost floral. She began to wrestle her shoulder away.

Then she heard what his voice was saying. ‘I’ve got your money, don’t worry. Is your leg all right? Can you get up?’

Then she realized he was trying to help her. He was peering at her anxiously, clutching her bundle of notes in one hand, trying to help her up with the other.

Then she felt shocked, and ashamed. And the base of her spine hurt horribly.

‘Oh,’ she wailed. ‘I’m such a fool.’

‘It can happen to anyone,’ he said. ‘It’s slippy.’

‘My bag came open,’ she babbled. ‘Then everything fell out. I’m sorry, young man. I’m very sorry —’

‘No problem.’

Perhaps he hadn’t noticed she was afraid? But just in case he had, May plunged onwards, talking without stopping as she straightened her coat, tried her ankle, pulled down her hem. ‘My husband’s in hospital, I’m in such a state, I’ve got all the money to sort out, my son’s come back from America and he’s given me this but it’s got to last us, I was just off to the post office, do you know Mr Varsani, he’s a lovely man, my daughter lives with a West Indian …’

‘Steady on,’ he said. ‘Slow down.’ He was smiling at her in a different way, amused, now, and slightly ironic, she saw it was an intelligent face, a humorous face, not frightening at all. And he wasn’t very old. Sixteen? Eighteen? Nineteen at most. Younger than Dirk. ‘I think you’ve had a bit of a shock.’

She began to haul herself back to her feet. ‘I don’t want to be a trouble to you.’ He was picking up her things from the ground, wiping off the black water with his handkerchief.

Relief and shame washed over her in hot waves, and her voice rushed on. ‘Are you local? I’ve lived here all my life. It’s not what it was, Hillesden Rise. I don’t mean because of the foreigners. I’m not saying you’re a foreigner —’