Adriana Trigiani - Brava, Valentine

Sometimes I marvel at my family’s ability to accept the worst, and to forgive, but that’s due to my mother and father’s determination that no one, not even a seductress named Mary from Pottsville, Pennsylvania, would come between us. How ironic, then, to think that it isn’t an outsider that threatens to tear us apart and destroy us now, thread by thread, but a boll weevil from within. The real enemy of our family unity, as it turns out, is a sharp businessman with a cold heart-my brother.

Of all the things Gram left behind, my favorite memorabilia is the collection of annual calendars that used to hang over the desk in the workshop. They are the true minute book of this corporation, an unofficial ledger of business transactions that date back to my great-grandfather’s arrival in the United States.

We have the calendars as far back as 1910, each month illustrated by whatever business or supplier sponsored it. The oldest ones were provided by a company that made Red Goose shoes. There are circled dates and notes made first by my great-grandfather, then my grandfather, and finally Gram. The word affitto is written on the last day of the month, until 1918, where it changes from affitto to pagamento d’ipoteca . I could never throw these out-not with my great-grandfather and grandfather’s notes scribbled on them-so I flip through them, placing them carefully back in the box without wrinkling or tearing the pages.

I’m the sole custodian of our family history, and not because anyone asked me to be. The truth is, no one else is interested in the contents of these dusty old boxes, nor do they want to store them. I’m the only Angelini who treasures these old documents and is inspired by them.

My sister Tess has no patience with anything antique. Even her home decor is sleek and modern: Ikea meets Richard Meier. Tess rebelled against Mom’s interior decoration, ornate English and French, in our family home in Queens. Jaclyn has a streamlined Swedish look in her condo-Gustavian, with distressed furniture and neutrals. Alfred and Pamela are New Jersey chic, a rambling faux farmhouse filled with highly polished Ethan Allen. I don’t think any of them have attics or closets filled with junk. They prune as they go. Pamela would take one look at these old calendars and recycle them.

I flip through 1912, looking at the styles of the time. In less than a hundred years, the world is completely different. They thought they were mod back then, with advertisements for cars with rumble seats and bathing costumes made of fine wool.

I have a separate box of my great-grandfather’s sketches. I often refer to them when I’m drawing, as they are the template for our couture shoes, each named after the heroine of a famous opera. For eighty years, there were six key designs, until Gram added a seventh in 1990. Occasionally I get out his sketch pad, but I did a thorough transfer of the drawings from paper to computer, because I didn’t want to add wear and tear to the delicate drawings, done in his hand with charcoal and ink.

As I pick up the last calendar to replace it in the box, a sheet of thick sketch paper falls out of it. A woman’s dress shoe is drawn in meticulous detail. It has a slim, stacked heel, and it’s made of woven leather, with an ornate flap on the top of the shoe, modified from a Louis XIV style. The toe is rounded, while the vamp is sleek. It is unlike any of the designs in my grandfather’s hand. He sketched in an architectural fashion, and his renderings have actual measurements printed carefully next to the components and notes written in Italian, specifying grommets, velvet piping, laces-whatever the requirements of the shoe might be.

This shoe, however, is pure fancy. You could hang the drawing on the wall-it’s artful and loose, playful and fun. The shoe rests on a cloud, with a thunderbolt indicating a storm underneath it-a powerful image, almost like an advertisement. In the corner of the drawing, I see the signature of the artist. It says:

Rafael Angelini

I’ve never heard of a Rafael Angelini. I find this odd, as I know all the names of my cousins in Italy. My grandfather was an only child, like my mother. My great-grandfather, Michel, had sisters. There was Zia Anna, Zia Elena, and Zia Enes. No Rafaels. And, as far as I know, none of their children were named Rafael.

Maybe my grandfather designed under the name Rafael. Maybe under a pseudonym, he let go, created with abandon, designed whimsical shoes, fashionable shoes, courant shoes. Maybe he even had the idea, long before I did, of developing a line of shoes that could serve a mass market. But why wouldn’t I know this? Surely this would be part of the family story.

I look closely at the drawing. This was definitely not drawn by my great-grandfather’s hand. There’s another Angelini. But who is he? I lay the drawing carefully on the bed, so I’ll remember to ask Gram about it.

Then, I open one of Gram’s prized possessions: a turquoise leather case with a white patent leather top. There’s a gold metal handle and a buckle on the side. I snap it open. It’s filled with record albums.

I can’t believe Gram left her collection of Frank Sinatra records behind. Gram never collected china or silver, or Hummels or Lladro; her only vice was The Chairman of the Board.

The dust jackets of the Sinatra LPs are stored alphabetically in the case. They are uncompromised and untouched by time. I would wager there’s not a scratch on the record albums inside the sleeves. There’s even a pristine chamois cloth folded neatly in an envelope inside in the lid to dust them before playing them.

I remember when Gram would stack the records on the turntable, and the automatic plastic arm would slip across to hold them in place. Then she’d carefully turn the knob, and like magic, one record would drop, the needle would slip over to the outside groove, and then, suddenly, the house was filled with music.

When we were children, we were pretty much allowed free rein with anything in this house, except the Sinatra albums. We were allowed to play Louis Prima and Keely Smith records, or Boots Randolph instrumentals, or even the Perry Comos, but the Sinatra collection was sacrosanct. Only Gram could load Sinatra on the hi-fi.

These were the songs that played through my grandmother’s youth, courtship, and married life. When Sinatra was young, so was Gram. She was a bobby-soxer, only twelve years old when she bought her first record in 1940, with “I’ll Never Smile Again” on the A side and “Marcheta” on the flip side. She danced to “For Every Man There’s a Woman” at her wedding to my grandfather.

My mother remembers Gram taking her to the Fulton Record Shop and waiting when a new album was to be released. Gram was a diehard fan, but she left the sound track of her life before Dominic Vechiarelli behind, which says everything about her desire to start over. All that’s left of her years of stewardship over these albums is the nostalgic scent of the old record shop: high gloss ink and plastic. If I needed proof of my grandmother’s ultimate intentions, it is here, in my hands. She’s never coming home.

I lift out her prized albums and sort through them. I prop them across the headboard of her bed. The covers are a fest of Frank. Sinatra in a single beam of light in front of a microphone; young, thin, and totally sexy. Sinatra illustrated pulp fiction style in vivid tones of turquoise and magenta, on the runway with a TWA airplane behind him, extending his hand to a woman whose lacquered red nails rest in his hand. Another with a sky blue background with a photograph of Frank wearing a dapper fedora. As I shuffle through the collection, Frank Sinatra gets older, but he never loses his luster. The images of the glamorous past get to me. So, I throw on my parka, grab my glass of wine, and head up to the roof, balancing the glass on the stairs as I unlatch the door.