Nishant Baxi - The Most In Depth Self Discovery Book – Ever

A sexual reformer is one that needs constant attention to their plans. You have to be patient as you listen to them because they want to change the world so badly but they got no one to share them with. They tend to be lonely when no one acknowledges their grand plans.

A social reformer is one who often winds up like politicians and social activists. You have to put them with the right crowd for the wrong crowd will only reinforce their hypocrisy and turn the social reformer into a cult leader.

They work very well with enthusiasts (type 7) who are often sold and excited about their plans for reformation and they hate being around individualists (type 4) who are self indulgent, often depressed and doesn’t get anything done.

Helpers live to serve. As long as they feel that they are in contribution to others, they feel they are worthy. A being of selflessness, they believe that giving to others is their highest calling as they feel that love is the most important emotion in the world.

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These are the warmest, most helpful people around who will never forget your birthday (or feel really guilty when they do so…) and will go the extra mile to help one in need.

An extrovert in nature, they work hard to relate and show love to all their friends and family. They live for appreciation and often falls into the trap of tending to the needs of others at the neglect of their own which often causes a problem.

Helpers love the unbounded feeling of freedom which includes freedom of expressive their love to the world. An expressive being on unconditional love, they long to give and give and give until they can give no more.

Helpers are highly altruistic – you can always count on them to sacrifice themselves for the good of others, often at their own expense.

Being around them is good because they will always be there to fulfill your needs and feel their love.

The problem with helpers is that they have a strong tendency to seek vainglory because of their love to help others. Because they feel that

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being in contribution to others is their greatest calling, they will do whatever it takes, even to the point of manipulation in order to get people to acknowledge their helpfulness. They are prone to flattery.

Some helpers, ironically… even though they are filled with love, can turn really ugly if their love is not reciprocated. They feel that they are heroes because of the loving and helping nature, they will constantly have a sense of entitlement to those closest to them – often feeling that people owe them appreciation and gratitude.

When their emotional needs go unmet, they come really bossy and manipulative because they have earned their right for reciprocation. At the worst case scenario, they might become hysterical, unreasonable, very difficult to deal with and even abusive!

How To Deal With Them

The best thing a helper can do for themselves is to take care of their own needs even when they feel full on in helping others. As long as they are kept from burnout, they are less susceptible to emotional exhaustion and dryness. They often fear that they are unworthy for others to love them.

A self preserving helper will help others and often refuse to tell others about their own needs. To help these people, you have to help them back behind the background otherwise they will feel that you are

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intruding their self-worth without realize that they are running on an empty fuel tank.

A sexual helper will need lots of love and care expressed visibly or visually. They must be acknowledged by their mates or they will malfunction. Be patient when listening to their meandering needs for acknowledgement and help them to help themselves and you’ll do fine.

Social helpers are good in charitable organizations or counseling centers. Giving them good social projects is okay as long as the people they are serving give lots of encouragement and support. Take care of their needs when you see that they are serving too many people lest they feel burnt out with the huge burden or trying to please everyone.

They work very well with individualists (type 7) who are often deeply complex and have many different needs (which helpers love to be around and help them) and they hate being around challengers (type 8) who threaten their comfort zones.

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Chapter 3:

The Achiever and The Individualist

Synopsis

Top achievers of the society, they live to achieve and achieve, they must! These people are never content with mediocrity and they will do whatever it takes to sing the song of victory!

This chapter talks about:

– What an achiever is all about

– Why are achiever good to have around

– What is most difficult about achievers

– Dealing with them and bringing out the best

– Who they get along with

– Who they don’t along with

Championing the cause of accomplishment, loving an achiever for his or her high standards is the key to understanding these individuals. Just don’t take their glory moments away from them and they will shine like a shooting star reaching greater heights!

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“I am me. There is no one else like me.” This is the cry of an individualist – one who is different and distinct from the rest (according to them…)

This chapter talks about:

– What an individualist is all about

– Why are individualist are good to have around

– What is most difficult about individualists

– Dealing with them and bringing out the best

– Who they get along with

– Who they don’t along with

Elitist of society, they are always striving to be unique and different. Understanding them takes effort, but will yield their unique blend of humanity. Just don’t ever remind them how “common’ they are.

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Achievers are beings who live for validation. They will do whatever it takes to attain success, wealth, fame, or anything that will get the attention of their community.

They are the types that are hardworking, competitive, striving and loves high performance challenges and rewards such as top sales, best division or even the highest score in a video game.

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