Брюс Фейлер: Секреты счастливых семей. Мужской взгляд

Исследование на тему детских талантов представлено в книге Бенджамина Блума «Developing Talent in Young People». Тест Томпсона фигурирует в книге Джима Томпсона «Positive Sports Parenting». Цитата Кей Редфилд Джемисон взята из книги «Exuberance» (c. 41). Я писал про ESPN, правда, в несколько ином ключе, в своей статье «Dominating the Man Cave», New York Times , от 3 февраля 2011 г.

Статистикой и необычными примерами семейных сборов со мной любезно поделилась Эдит Вагнер, редактор журнала Reunions . Она рассказала мне множество историй, в том числе и те, которые не публиковались в журнале. Мои рассуждения о сплоченности подразделений опираются на труд Уильяма Макнилла «Keeping Together in Time»; книгу Джона Джонса и Майкла Бикела «Cohesion in the U. S. Military» и публикацию Джеоффа Ван Эппса «Relooking Unit Cohesion», Military Review (ноябрь/декабрь 2008).

Мои интервью с создателями, авторами и актерами «Американской семейки» можно прочитать в статье «What “Modern Family” Says About Modern Families» от 21 января 2001 г., New York Times . Рид Ларсон и Марис Ричардс пишут о постоянном пересмотре договоренностей в Divergent Realities (с. 219). Размышления Джонатана Хайдта о рассказывании историй изложены в книге «Гипотеза счастья» (The Happiness Hypothesis) (с. 144–150). Чтобы узнать больше о Льве Толстом и его зеленой палочке, а также увидеть написанное им завещание, смотрите www.tolstoy.org.uk/biography.html.

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