Хайди Хиггинс - Психология мотивации

Вы узнали о мотивации стремления к успеху и желания избежать неудачи и о том, что им соответствует, и ваша жизнь заиграла новыми красками. Вы поняли, как можно более эффективно влиять практически на все, что вы делаете — работать с тем, что соответствует вашей мотивации, использовать свои сильные стороны так, чтобы это было выгодно вам, компенсировать ими свои слабости. Теперь ваша жизнь меньше наполнена тревогой, ведь понимание мотивации помогает вам намного спокойнее и проще относиться к себе и ко всем окружающим. Вы уже не чувствуете, что должны хорошо уметь все в каждый момент своей жизни, ведь вы знаете, что это невозможно. Невозможно ни для кого. Стремление к успеху и желание избежать неудачи всегда имеют свои недостатки. Вас меньше удивляют и раздражают люди, чей взгляд на мир отличается от вашего, поскольку теперь это имеют для вас смысл. Вы можете даже оценить преимущества их подхода… и иногда воспользоваться им.

Теперь вы умеете говорить на их языке. А если они не говорят на вашем, возможно, стоит подарить им эту книгу.

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