Martin Dean - Switch And Swap

As author Roger Blake notes in THE WIFE SWAPPERS…

"There are also instances where a drinking party of sophisticated couples which had begun as nothing more than a friendly get-together, has ended up in a Roman orgy." (3)

While many group swapping sessions consist of five couples or more, many groups never grow any larger than the original two-couple foursome.

In THE SEXUAL VARIANT, author Harvey T. Leathern notes…

"While large groups gain most of the publicity and attention,-at least one national magazine is involved in an extensive study, reporting monthly, on the sexual behavior of American wife-swappers-the majority of marital trading usually involves just four persons. Two married couples finding that a bit of genital variety adds a little spice to the sexual repertoire, become friendly and then intimate with each other-without ever desiring or considering the inclusion of a third or a fourth couple," (16)

Surprisingly many swap sessions are limited to an intimate four-some. When we become involved in presenting a clear view of the world of swapping we must consider that individual desires and interests among the participants may vary.

It quite commonly happens, among older and younger couples, that a close friendship often leads into erotic channels. Some swappers prefer the intimacy of a smaller group and never include any other couples.

In this case it was most embarrassing to be apprehended by the police in the act of 'mate-swapping' and even more psychologically harmful to be prosecuted criminally for indulging in an act which is engaged in by quite a large percentage of our population.

At this point both Justine and Ray are undergoing analysis. Both feel they need some help in coping with their guilt feelings and their deep embarrassment resulting from being apprehended in engaging in America's number one indoor sport.

Neither Justine nor Ray believe they will ever become involved in swapping again for quite some time. They are both saving their money to buy a home. Justine is eagerly awaiting the birth of their first child.

"I don't feel guilty about what Ray and I did…," Justine admitted, trying to honestly appraise her own feelings. "I'm just sorry that it ended up in the big mess that it did. Even mature adults get mixed up in the big wide world of sex! Ray and I have had our fling. Now we want to settle down!"

"I really feel sorry for Mark…," Justine related. "His family has practically disowned him. I don't think we were so wrong. I believe a lot of people are acting hypocritical for condemning us when so many thousands of others are doing just the same thing!"

Ray and Justine are maturing. I no longer believe they need psychiatric help. While I do not condone swapping I believe that much harm is done publicly exposing those who commit such offenses. I believe also that many of those convicted of such offenses suffer more damage from the conviction itself than from the practice of wife-swapping!

Such it seems, is the state of ridiculous confusion that exists when sex becomes investigated by those who would uphold the law. In many cases legal prosecution for illegal sexual offenses causes more psychological harm than the various acts themselves.

Swapping groups come in various shapes and sizes ranging from the quiet and refined three-way swap to a modern day replica of the authentic Orgy involving hundreds of persons in abandoned sexual activities.

Not every swap session is a three-way orgy. Nor is it as large as the Roman orgy. Most groups would be better described as ‘miniature orgies' consisting of perhaps six to fifteen members. The miniature orgy is always larger than the three-way swap but smaller than the authentic Roman bacchanalia.

Statistics prove that many married persons are inclined to commit adultery. In WIFE SWAPPERS author Roger Blake notes…

"By accepting the Kinsey figures that fully 26% of the married women in this country and an estimated 50% of the married men commit adultery during the course of their married lives, it is easy to see that the basis for wife-swapping exists among a tremendously large portion of the married population." (3)

Swapping seems to have become a popular and convenient method of committing adultery. Since most of the members are bisexual a limited amount of perversions and unusual sex practices may occasionally be indulged in. Even sexual activities which are most often considered 'normal' may be indulged in to an abnormal degree.

As Roger Blake notes in LOVE CLUBS, INC.,

"There are literally hundreds of social, friendship, lonely hearts, "unusual interests", "unique," and "Bizarre" pen-pal and correspondence clubs advertised in the daily newspapers and weekly or monthly tabloids the country over." (2)

Let us study the swapping activities of Jerry and Brenda Breedlove, who are both young and attractive residents of a well-to-do community in Santa Barbara, California. Brenda and Jerry meet regularly with other swappers in their large plushly decorated basement.

"Jerry and I both think variety is the spice of life…," Brenda notes, lifting vivacious blue eyes. Brenda softly strokes her tight nylons which reveal smooth tapered legs.

"Really-neither of us is suited to a quiet married life! Both of us are too HOT to settle for steady repetition with one partner! I don't brag about the fact that Jerry and I are swingers. But I've admitted to myself that I need more than one man to keep cool! I guess you might say that Jerry and I are pretty uninhibited when it comes to sex. We do some pretty wild things together!"

"We meet with other swingers through correspondence clubs…," Brenda blushed. "I get the HOTS just writing long sexy letters to different males and females all over the country. Jerry and I take revealing snap-shots of each other. We receive a lot of pictures too!"

"Some letters I receive from swingers really turn me on…," Brenda frowned. "I like the long HOT ones. I can get a good wet come if I masturbate! Men write me about how they like to screw a woman, how they love to eat ripe snatch, and how they love to rip their swollen cocks into a tight ass. I move my finger beneath my skirt. I never wear any panties. They just get in the way. I move my finger over my ripe love-button. I flip it back and forth like a nice hot tongue! The words begin getting to me! Guys mention sliding their cocks around in the wet sea of love and then eating their hot come out of some girl's box. Trash like that makes me hot. Sometimes I even lick, and suck my finger after I've finger-fucked myself."

"Our parties usually begin on a Friday night…," Brenda revealed. "After everyone gets transporting off from work they spend a lot of time transporting themselves to our place. But once our guests arrive we promise them a long relaxing week-end. Usually our bashes last until Sunday morning with everyone leaving just in time to get to work!"

"During the week I count the days until party-time. I sometimes close my eyes and count, visually count, our guests in erotic copulation. Jerry and I both love sex so much. We don't do many things that are considered wild or perverse. But sometimes I think we overdo what is called normal sex. Jerry and I throw some pretty wild bashes. We really got into one hell of a mess though when we got arrested in the act of banging with a minor! The police seized movies showing the adolescent girl intimately involved with adults. Jerry and I were told to consult a psychiatrist. So here we are."

"Tell me about the incidents leading to your arrest…?"

"Well…,"Brenda smiled. "Jerry and I write to a lot of swingers. My box is full of hot letters each day. We latched onto Vicki and her husband, Charlie, through the mail. Vicki is a young vivacious brunette with blue eyes that sizzle! Charlie is a middle-aged cat, handsome and athletic, with a mammoth sized penis. Vicki got to writing me about how their daughter had relations with Charles who was her step-father. Apparently their twelve year old kid, Patty, was pretty hot!"