Dorsai - Friends and Lovers

I was already all too aware of the ability of women to orgasm harder and more often than guys could, but the point was driven home with a vengeance by the time they were done. It was over three hours before they finally fell apart. Between the time they first collected on the floor and when they were "just" three satiated females, I would guesstimate that each of them must have had a dozen orgasms – at least.

Seeing them, and knowing what condition they had to be in after what I'd witnessed, I went into the kitchen and made some snacks for all of them. Those were added to several sodas, and I took the assorted refreshments back into the family room where they were starting to exhibit signs of life again. When they saw what I'd done, all three thanked me profusely as they re-hydrated and re-energized. I was also willing to sit on the floor with them when they asked, since I figured the danger had passed.

As the three of them chatted about different things, I kept looking at each of them and marveling at the life I had. First of all, I had the great fortune to have Janet as my sister. Intelligent, loving, affectionate, thoughtful, attractive, and so much more, I knew that there was a bond between her and I that could never be broken -" and I was glad of it. I knew how lucky I was to have Mom and Dad as my parents, so that Sis and I would grow up the way we did, loving and trusting each other completely .

Watching Nadia, I could easily understand why she was one of Janet's best friends. Though she wasn't as intelligent as Sis, Nadia made up for it with a willingness (even eagerness) to learn anything she could from anybody she met. As friendly and sociable as anyone I knew, she also had the courage to stand up for what she thought was right while having the rare ability to not tell people "I told you so". Hers was a simple, basic prettiness that made her nice to look at without making her somehow unapproachable.

Looking at Jade, there was no escaping how incredibly beautiful she was. But for anyone that was willing to look closer and deeper, there was a loyal, helpful, smart, and playful person to enjoy being with. Since the four of us had gotten started with each other, she'd become even more outgoing, and had demonstrated a mischievous sense of humor that the rest of us delighted in. Her beauty was actually something of a burden for her, since it often caused other girls to dislike her, and guys hesitant to approach her. She knew she was pretty, but didn't consider that any reason she should get any kind of special treatment -" good or bad.

Of course, I had to check out my own navel, too. I knew that I was honest, and tried my best to be fair to and with other people; I tried to avoid confrontation if it was possible, but wasn't afraid to make a stand about something if I figured it was called for, either. I wasn't always as friendly and helpful as I wanted to be, but I kept trying to get better about it. I was loyal to those that I thought deserved it, and willing to listen to what other people had to say to me until such time as I (reluctantly) decided that they were just assholes -" at which point I stopped paying any attention to them. I knew that I was loving and affectionate, and didn't figure that it made me any less of a "man". I could be as patient as I needed to be with anyone that was honestly *trying*, and was smart enough that I could actually do a fair job of putting myself in someone else's place and understanding their point of view. I supposed I was nice-looking enough, though Sis and Nadia and Jade had all told me it was better than that.

When I came out of my little reverie, all three of them were looking at me expectantly. Realizing I'd missed something, I told them "Sorry, I was off in la-la land. What was it again?"

It was Nadia that told me "Jade just said there was something important she wanted to ask you."

Looking at her, I could see that Jade was nervous about something, and told her "I'm sorry – really. What was it you wanted to ask?"

After looking around at all of us, she said "Before I can ask, there's something I probably need to explain. Well, a couple of things, I think. You all know my mom is Chinese, and she married my dad while he was working in Hong Kong, and we lived there until it was time for my older brother to start school; that's when Daddy got his company to transfer him back here. My dad isn't so bad about it, but my mom is almost crazy about me and my brothers and sisters respecting our Chinese heritage – even though SHE violated Chinese customs by marrying a 'gwai'."

Seeing the looks of confusion on our faces, Jade explained "Gwai means foreigner -" except they way it's used, it doesn't just mean foreigner. It's tough to explain, but there's a whole lot of other stuff that's included when a Chinese refers to a non-Chinese as 'gwai' – and none of it is good. If you can imagine someone saying 'tourist' like it leaves a bad taste in their mouth, it's like that -" only maybe a thousand times worse, okay?"

All of us nodded our understanding, and Jade went on "Okay, knowing how Chinese feel about gwai, you can probably figure out what it was like for Mom after she married Daddy. But despite all that, she still wants all of us kids to honor and respect Chinese ways. That's how bad most Chinese are about being Chinese, okay? That why it makes me crazy sometimes, having an American dad and Chinese mom: Daddy is good about how things change, while Mom is stuck in hundreds and thousands of years of tradition."

Taking a breath to settle herself again, Jade went on "One of the really big things about being Chinese, and the culture, is that there's this incredible pressure for a girl to be a virgin on her wedding night. It isn't any big deal, really, for guys to go to prostitutes, but the girl they marry has to be 'pure'. Now, I've grown up with all this -" Chinese is best, Chinese customs are best, Chinese this or that is best – the whole deal. From the time I was old enough to talk, Mom has been after me about staying 'pure' until I get married -" kind of like Janet and Danny grew up hearing about love and everything."

Again, all of us nodded. I figure the expression on my face must have been the same as those on Janet and Nadia: I understand, but where is this going ?

The next thing Jade had to tell us was "The other thing I want to explain is that the question I want to ask Danny, it's something I've really been thinking about, and that I'm really sure about -" and that I'm asking him in front of everybody for a couple of reasons. First, I love all of you and know that you love me, too -" and how much. That's a*big* part of why I can ask Danny my question. The other reason is that I'd really like your help, Nadia and Janet. What I'm going to ask, I could do it by myself, but I know it would be easier if you two helped. You'll understand why in a second."

Looking at me intently, and nervously, Jade calmly asked "Danny, you know why I feel like I have to stay a virgin until I'm married. Except that what I want is to be able to make love with you. What I'd like to ask is if you would make love with me in a way that would let me stay a virgin – by – by putting your penis in my butt."

Even though Sis and I had made love that way a few times (at her request), I wasn't anywhere NEAR ready for Jade to ask me to do the same thing to her.

Seeing how apprehensive Jade was getting, I pulled my thoughts together and told her "Jade, I*do* love you, and all the things that we do together IS making love. You don't have to do that for me to love you."

"I know that, Danny. It's something I want to do – for*me*. There's a lot of stuff about being part Chinese that I like -" I really do. But this whole virginity thing isn't part of that, and I can't get away from that. But if you'll make love with me the way I asked, it's a way for me to get around it -" I'll be able to make love with you, like I want, but stay a virgin like my mom wants."