Alexander Borodin - Zero emotions and psychology in the military style…

11. By the way, to beautiful women whoever and wherever they work, as a seller in a store, as a doctor in a hospital, men come to look at them, but they do not know and understand everything. As a woman acquaintance said, ks tati is from the category of those who are accepted to be considered beautiful: «Guys do not like being fucked by their brains,» she meant that they do not like when women don’t give themselves up to them at once or try to manipulate them. About screaming in sex when you don’t want to. There are those who love naturalness and, moreover, this is expressed in everything, if a person loves non-commercial music, then he does not want unnaturalness in sex and in relationships, he needs naturalness in everything.

12. In family and household relationships, if one of the family members is proud (husband or wife), then the other should be simple. It is the same at work, ideally if you are proud yourself, you need to find a job where the boss will be easier for you. In short, if you are complex yourself, then you need to look for a simple partner. And yet, a husband or wife needs to be «loaded», convinced of something, this will concretize the family.

13. As one guy said: «She has a whole round dance of» deer «like you.» How to stand out in front of a person who is considered to be beautiful, for example, a female? E If the girl does not transmit appropriate signals (smiles for example), then it is better to ignore and not" drive up" to her, as she did «a dance of the deer you» and you risk in this regard, to be like everyone who it rolls up to her, when you do not get to know you become different from others. Conclusion, if a woman does not give any provocative signals that you are interesting to her (does not look, does not smile), then there is no point in «rolling up».

14. It is necessary to recognize the signals of the opposite sex, if a woman looks at a man with lazy eyes or smiles at him, she knows that he «rolled up» to her, of course there may be «misfires», but women behave this way when they want to provoke someone. tackle them.

15. There are psychological and physiological needs that do not change and are repeated in the future, recycle. «… First you need to offer vodka to him, then to me, and then pour yourself for yourself», exemplary words of one of the heroes of the film «Heart of a Dog», USSR. «… to him, to myself, then to me… you torture yourself as under the tsarist regime…» approximate words from the answer of another hero of the above film. Etiquette is clearly invented in order not to irritate others and other considered negative emotions, i.e. people know pretty well how others will react to their behavior. By the way, directors do not always shoot films out of sheer enthusiasm, they are also ordered «music» by those who are in power. In the USSR, films were filmed and shown glorifying the workers (the proletariat), and immediately after the collapse of the USSR, the main characters in the films began to say that they did not like the proletariat.

16. It is noticed that courageous people without so-called borderline mental disorders do not have what is called withdrawal syndrome in its generally accepted understanding, or rather, there is no psychological component of it, no matter how old these brave people are (no feeling of anxiety, no hallucinations, etc..). It was also noticed that such people are not addicted to alcohol and other psychostimulants. Conclusion, and the withdrawal syndrome («withdrawal») depends on the presence and the degree of borderline mental disorders.

17. There is no so-called interclass mobility, you cannot become someone from someone – this is what is called propaganda used to incite people against the current government and in any state by political opponents, and are these words just politics? Write a book about what you know better or not worse than some, and you have acquired social status from there. Also, you work on a non-prestigious job that you read, for example, learn some kind of programming language or a foreign language and you already have a solid profession. And in general, if you do not learn anything, but do not drink alcohol, in any case, you will be promoted to a leading position, this is almost 100%. Formula: don’t drink alcohol – boss. By the way, there is a stereotype that a programmer needs to know mathematics, but as far as I know, this is not so, at least as far as web programming (website development, etc.) is concerned, mathematics and other exact sciences are needed only when creating game engines, means objects pushing off the wall in the game, etc.

18. The ideal, from the point of view of survival does not need not to whom to communicate, of course unless those BOJ is going smoothly for your psyche, or vice versa communicate, again, if the consequences after "binding" with someone or go to you as painless and the some then regret what happened. In a poor country, what is considered weakness will interfere with survival and all this needs to be cut off: friends, alcohol, etc. Here you can do it much more painlessly than, for example, in prison. Officially in the prison they want to «cut off» the so-called weaknesses of all the prisoners in the category there.

19. Be careful with some state employees, fraudsters or their children, as some of them, in order not to work, are physically accustomed to manipulating people. And they have in stock so-called «battle memes» (verbal means like: «you have no conscience», «you are not a man», «I would be ashamed», «weakling», etc.), for deception or motivating citizens to act in the right direction.

20. Why give in to someone’s manipulative criticism, anyway, sooner or later they will die, in fact, you succumb to the influence of the future, no matter how strange it sounds, corpses, do what you want, act like a soul lies.

21. Why do citizens of some countries live better than citizens of other countries, in connection with which in some countries the standard of living is higher, while in others it is lower? Because some believe the rich countries, the ancestors of living in the moment, the people there, creating colonies in different continents and from there were taken the wealth and slaves in their own country, in a word, there are countries which have exploited their citizens, and there are those, which have exploited foreign citizens. And in other countries, a high standard of living due to the large availability of minerals, etc.

22. From nekot oryh poor countries leaves the elites but in the sense of intelligence and mind, some people try to sell their intelligence and their ide cial psyche more expensive, such as going to work of IT – corporations, serve in the Foreign Legion, etc.

23. Why is it that in the civil service and in some power structures, in some countries, the attitude to all employees on the part of the bosses is different, selective, if the employees have the same abilities? P otomu that there are those among the employees, who have a connection (or their relatives) and those in which they do not exist and there are those employees who have a business (or their relatives) and those who do not. Under the «distribution» in such places fall and pull all the work, as a rule, those who are mere" mortals", without connections and business. And the «thieves» turns lyrical socio-everyday sense posture 69 is a what is called blat, Mode th You-I, I – you, or cross-pollination.

By the way, another answer to the question why it is harder to work in law enforcement agencies and in other social services of poor countries than in social services of rich countries is because in poor countries social services are overloaded, there is no money to expand the staff, there are few people in these services, but there are many challenges.

24. Everything is relative and everyone lives according to the firmware of the higher powers – you are a person, then your cat loves you, you are a bird, then he will eat you.