Эмили Нагоски: Как хочет женщина.Мастер-класс по науке секса

См. [116]. В ходе подобного исследования тревожного расстройства и депрессии, сравнивающего шкалу осознанности и шкалу сочувствия к себе, было установлено, что сочувствие к себе более точно прогнозирует качество жизни, чем осознанность [231].

Сходные идеи (необходимость ставить перед собой более подходящие цели) изложены в модели «достаточно хороший секс», разработанной Майклом Метцем и Барри Маккарти и описанной в их книге [165]. Чтобы сохранять сексуальную удовлетворенность в долговременных отношениях, согласно их концепции, нужно следить за реалистичностью своих ожиданий, шире толковать игривость и удовлетворение, практиковать гибкость, разнообразие, асинхронность (не испытывать одновременно одно и то же чувство) и понимать «рисунок эротического потока» вашего партнера [160, 165].

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